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How do you get your ex boyfriend back with out being so obvious about it?
well my boyfriend broke up with me and I still like him a lot. I still dream about him and everything. But I don’t think he still likes me.
When me and my ex broke off, I tried every rule in the book to get him back, i’ve read countless articles of how to get him back, and been all over Yahoo answers to find a way to get back with him.
truth is he did eventually come back, and eventually wanted to be with me, but it was due to the fact that I stopped trying and started to live my life the best way possible. I ran into a new guy, and me and him started dating, and somehow My ex got really jealous and wanted me back. I guess it goes for the old saying you never know what you have until is gone. But I’ll give you a few tips anyway to help you out.
For starters, I’m sure everyone has said this and know this…..do not contact him…do not beg him back, do not cause drama when you are with him.
second, spend your time bettering yourself, find some new activities that you always wanted to do but never had a chance to, and get your body in shape to build your self confidence
third, spend time with friends, make new friends, find people to hangout with, get to know other people
fourth, start answering other people’s questions about their ex’s, and how they feel, sometimes when you realize that you are not the only one suffering, you might feel better, you might want even answer some of your own questions on here b/c chances are there are other people going through the same exact thing, I happen to be one of them.
fifth, don’t read in between the lines, if your ex wants to hangout, or if he calls to ask a question, or if he gives you any signal that might make you think he wants you back, don’t fall for it….sometimes after a breakup, your consicious makes you believe what you want to believe and plays mind tricks. Take everything that he does or say for what it is, and nothing more. If he ask you out to a movie, then don’t see it as a date, don’t see it as he wants you back or else you will be dissapointed when his intentions are not what you expected.
sixth, keep in mind, the power lies in the person that cares the least, so if you stop wanting something so bad, and stop caring about it, maybe he will come back crawling to you once he realize he’s got nothing left. " the grass is not always greener on the other side". Sooner or later, he will think of you, and realize it’s too late, don’t let him know you are waiting for him, b/c then he’ll just keep doing him and forget that you existed.
seventh, if you guys do decide to be friends, try not to be emotional about the fact that you guys are JUST FRIENDS, in fact be exactly just that, let him know he can’t have you anymore, b/c you are not his g/f.
8th, if he ask you for favors, do them, but don’t rush to do it, but be nice about it when he asks, and than go back to the friend zone, which means you are not calling him 24/7, and you keep it short and brief on the phone and stop texting.
9th, if he asks you about your life, tell him you are doing great, you have all these things going on for yourself, and that you have this guy that has a crush on you, and you might consider going out with him. ( don’t do this unless you think this will backfire on you )….but honestly, sometimes making a guy jealous and letting him know he no longer has you is the best way to slap him in the face and get him to come to a realization.
10th, only b/c if theres a 9th rule, I might as well make a 10th rule…lol. don’t let him know you are doing all this to get him back, don’t do anything that he might think you are using it to play games with him…soooo… make yourself valuable, make yourself beautiful, and make yourself into a cold heartless human being that doesn’t give a crap about him..and you should do fine 
GOOD LUCK….keep in mind…destiny is already written…so prepare yourself that no matter what you do… you can’t change what’s not meant to be…but you can change the fact that you won’t regret what you didn’t do 10 years from now by putting your best efforts now.
How do I get my ex-boyfriend back?
I’ve liked him for eight months
We started going out last month
And we broke up exactly a month after
I see the problems were
1) We barely talked and texted
( I was scared of being to clingy and he was often flirting with other girls, he is like that though )
2) I heard he still had a bit of feelings for his ex
3) He didn’t tell me anything
4) We were like good friends before, but the relationship wasn’t working
5) he was honest and said that I was too innocent
i think that was the real problem because I was scared to PDA. I regret it so much now. but I think I was going to slow for him. We only kissed, and whenever he tried holding my hand, I wouldn’t , and I don’t know why.
I really like him still… How do I make him fall for me again? I learned my lesson and I know now in relationship talking and trust is very important
If you want your ex boyfriend back you have to tell him everything you just said over yahoo answers. Tell him you have learned and you will change.
Asking Guys: Im wondering what would you do to get your ex girlfriend back?
Im a girl who got dumped by my long term boyfriend and after months of hearing nothing hes got in touch frequently over last few weeks.
I know yahoo answers cant say he still loves you or not but im wondering
if your IMing your ex do u try get away as quick as possible?
Would you assist your ex if she mentioned she was trying to find something would you go look for it for her example mentioned i was looking for a tax form within 2 minutes he had it emailed to me?
Offer to meet up to give her back stuff after been told when you broke up just bin them
Im just a bit curious as Im unsure and not really wanting to get too excited in case he’s just IMing me out of boredom
To me it sounds like your ex is trying to get you back. Especially if he just started IMing and texting out of the clear blue.
