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how do I get back ex back?
well me and my ex broke up, he dumped me said he can’t trust me anymore, and he wants to be single. I begged, and I cried, and still nothing came of it. We still live together, he says he just doesn’t know right now about getting together and that he’s happy being single. I’m not sure how long do I have to wait for him to come back or if he ever will come back again. In the mean time, someone else came along, I guess he makes me happy, and he keeps me occupied from being depressed and emotionally unstable about trying to get my ex back, and then when my ex finally told me he still just want to be single, I told my ex fine, I guess I will have to let you go, but at least you can be happy for me that I have someone that I can move on to, and he’s a good guy and I won’t be bothering you anymore. Then my ex flipped out and was like if you are messing with him, you can’t mess with me, like he started to act like there was a possible chance we might have gotten back, but since I started seeing someone, he was like it’s final. We are still in each other’s lives some way some how, but I feel the distant, I feel like he really can’t trust me or want me back after all this. But he says he still loves me, and I love him, it’s just that he has major trust issues with me and now he doesn’t want to give me another chance. I want to know when it’s over, why do guys care whether or not the person they dump is with someone else? Why do guys get mad about that, and also this new guy is really good to me, but I know if my ex asked me to come back, I would probably end everything with him, but since my ex isn’t asking me to come back, and dunno if he will ever, should I be waiting or just move on and if he comes back, he comes back, if not, then just move on. What is best? keep contacting him and making myself available, or ignore him and be with this new guy, what’s more effective. I know this a serious of questions, but just answer 1if you can’t answer all. I know sometimes if you leave your ex too long, then you may never get him back, but should I just let him completely go for now, and hopefully that when he’s with someone else, he will usually realize I’m still the best for him, what do you guys think??? A guy’s perspective is helpful.
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How do I get back ex back?
well me and my ex broke up, she dumped me said she can’t trust me anymore, and she wants to be single. I begged, and I cried, and still nothing came of it. We still live together, she says she just doesn’t know right now about getting together and that she’s happy being single. I’m not sure how long do I have to wait for her to come back or if she ever will come back again. In the mean time, someone else came along, I guess she makes me happy, and she keeps me occupied from being depressed and emotionally unstable about trying to get my ex back, and then when my ex finally told me she still just want to be single, I told my ex fine, I guess I will have to let you go, but at least you can be happy for me that I have someone that I can move on to, and she’s a good girl and I won’t be bothering you anymore. Then my ex flipped out and was like if you are messing with her, you can’t mess with me, like she started to act like there was a possible chance we might have gotten back, but since I started seeing someone, she was like it’s final. We are still in each other’s lives some way some how, but I feel the distant, I feel like she really can’t trust me or want me back after all this. But she says she still loves me, and I love her, it’s just that she has major trust issues with me and now she doesn’t want to give me another chance. I want to know when it’s over, why do girls care whether or not the person they dump is with someone else? Why do girls get mad about that, and also this new girl is really good to me, but I know if my ex asked me to come back, I would probably end everything with her, but since my ex isn’t asking me to come back, and dunno if she will ever, should I be waiting or just move on and if she comes back, she comes back, if not, then just move on. What is best? keep contacting her and making myself available, or ignore her and be with this new girl, what’s more effective. I know this a serious of questions, but just answer 1if you can’t answer all. I know sometimes if you leave your ex too long, then you may never get her back, but should I just let her completely go for now, and hopefully that when she’s with someone else, she will usually realize I’m still the best for her, what do you girls think??? A girl’s perspective is helpful.
Don’t you ask this weekly?
How do I get my ex back?!?!?! I screwed up our relationship?
I have been through a couple rocky relationships in my young life (I’m 23). My first boyfriend was controlling, jealous, put me down a lot, etc. My second boyfriend cheated on me a few times before I finally broke it off with him.
I just graduated college and met a really sweet guy. Unfortunately, I am scared to get hurt and our relationship had some issues due to this. He said that I shut myself down and distanced myself from him sometimes, and I couldn’t really trust him–not because of anything he did (he always called me when he said he would, etc.) I would think up all the signs that he was just using me/ didn’t really care and then yell at him about it/threaten to leave him, and he had no idea why I was so angry at him.
He put up with it for a while (3 months) but eventually got sick of it and broke it off with me, saying he didn’t want to lose me as a friend. We didn’t talk for about a week, then went out for drinks and ended up sleeping together again. We were going to "see where it went" but it didn’t work out again–nothing as bad as the first time, but I can tell he doesn’t fully trust me/isn’t ready to try again. He said he has feelings for me and is attracted to me but that it’s too stressful.
We decided we would stay friends. Do you think I have any chance of getting him back? I fully recognize how bad my behavior was and I’m willing to work on it. Should I just realize I messed up, move on, and try not to repeat the same mistake again? How can I chill out with the next guy?
Focus on being a good friend to him and in the meantime continue working on those areas of weakness. It may be that in time, with your ex seeing how much you’ve matured/changed for the better, he will want to be with you again.
However, don’t cling to that thought of being with him. It’s obvious that you do have trust issues and such, so spend time on yourself and keep your focus off of being in a relationship that you know you are not ready for. Make sure you do not step into rebound territory with some other person when you still have feelings for your ex because that would set you up for failure and bring you steps back away from the person you need to be in order to have a successful relationship.
So focus on yourself, enjoy being single, and keep yourself busy doing things that will take your mind off your ex.
