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Ok so I am 18 and my ex gf is 17. She broke up with me the day after Thanksgiving (a little over a month ago). I deserved to be dumped b/c I treated her like complete sh*t. I mainly did this b/c I was hurting so bad inside. I went to the Doctor December 14th (without anyone asking me to get help, so that right there shows you I am wanting to change!) and he diagnosed me with a severe case of clinical depression. I am currently getting my meds under control and start therapy next week.

I contacted my ex today for the first time in nearly 3 weeks and she said that she loves me, she misses me, but she doesnt want to get hurt again. She said it will be MONTHS (yes, she said months!) before we can even become SEMI-friends again. I couldnt believe this! I had admitted to lying to her in the past today, I have also been manipulative towards her, and I always got mad at her over little things, but I have apologized hundreds of times for not getting help sooner; but other than this crap, our near year long relationship was perfect. She said that its caused so much stress on both our families (my bro and her half sister are married…its really not weird or anything so i dont want anyone talking crap), and I will agree that it has. Her parents disagree with her dating me b/c they think we just arent right for each other. SO WHAT CAN I SAY TO HER TO GET HER TO GIVE ME A CHANCE TO SHOW I HAVE CHANGED!?!

**Oh and I dont want to wait to long to get a relationship going again b/c in 7 months we will be going to different colleges that are about 30 minutes apart. BUT dont tell me to just move on b/c I am in absolute love with this girl and I just cant do that! Thanks a lot everyone!

Make her feel loved, be nice, sweet, etc.
Send her flowers, do cute stuff.
Write her a letter with how much you love her (a romantic one)

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I broke it off with my boyfriend a little over a month ago We both said mean things but ended cordially. I love him and I don’t want to be without him, I now realize. I gave him his space…and dated other guys(nothing serious or intimate). He hasn’t dated anyone else. He invited to his family’s for the Thanksgiving, I declined but called him to see how he was doing. He responded well, says he misses me etc. What do I do now?

The old phrase, absence makes the heart grow stronger is true. Since you’ve been apart, he obviously still thinks about you.

The first thing you need to do though is figure out why you two broke up in the first place. If that isn’t discovered and addressed, it is bound to happen again causing another breakup.

You also want to be careful not to focus all your energy in trying to get him back. If your only concern is making up, you may come across as needy and that’s not a good image.

When you do decide to try it again, start off slow and make sure you discuss the original cause so you can work through it together and keep it from repeating itself.

Good Luck!

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