Posts Tagged ‘second time’

ok so my ex gf and i have been broken up ever since february and like we really loved each other. i wanted to get her back at that time and she said she didnt feel the same way. After about 2 months later she gets someone new, and everyone see’s that she has clearly made a mistake.

The guy whom she is with is believed to be a player & she knows it, so one day we are texting each other playing a silly question game and emotions start to come into part when some hot questions start to come.

So she says how i am a better boyfriend than him and how she thinks of me a lot, and she doesnt want to call me because she cant trust herself and how she might flirt she also said she loved me but not him & that i was her best and how she didnt want to break up w. me

So ever since that day we have lately been talking a lot like everyday, we text each other a lot & call now, also today we webcamed(she asked me to do) and she was staring at me a lot and she felt emotions.

so my thing is i love this girl, and she said she loved me too, but she still has the other guy. Her family loves me and so does her friends but to him they dislike. she said how she was considering marrying me and doing more w. me than w. him. Im trying to get her back, i want to know how to persuade her that she can be happier w. me and to go back out w. me without messing up or anything. please help…we’re 17.

She needs to make a decision into whether she wants you or not, as much as you want to be there for her, you are her emotional tampon, you need to get some balls and let her know once and for , that you want to make it work with her, but before you do this you need to know that whatever made the relationship break that you both need to be able to work on these issues .
No second time with someone is the same as the first so you need to fix the cracks so the relationship becomes bigger and better than the last.

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My ex bf and i broke up 6 months ago..since then we have still talked and hung out every now and then. We still hook up because i am not sleeping with any one else and he told me he was not either.. By hanging out the past couple of months we have begun having feelings for each other again and he now wants to get back together.. He broke up with me because he wanted to be single.. In the past couple months of hooking up i would continue to ask him if he is sleeping with other girls and he would continue to say no… I knew he was lying and finally told him to just admit it. He told me he had slept with 2 other girls since we had broken up and that he was single so he could but he shouldn’t of lied about it to me and he was sorry.. Now he wants to give it another shot. Am i being to over dramatic about the situation because he slept with two other girls even though he is single? Do i take him back because i do still have feelings for him..

If it didn’t work the first time it’s not gonna work the second time. I promise.

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My girlfriend and I broke up for the second time back in January. It was because she needed a break from me and it was to much for her. She had be avoiding me so I pushed to find out why and I guess she thought it was to much and didn’t like where we were. We have not spoken much since. We talked briefly two weeks ago about our weekend and that type of small talk and then she texted me on friday night. It was the usual back and forth talk and then we preceded to mention that she missed sex with me and how amazing it was. and it was. when we had sex it was so good. She we talked so more and agreed that we should do it that night. I was studying that night so i could not go out like she wanted me to so she was drunk when she sent it but had sobered up when we got together. So we had sex and it was great. It wasn’t awkward and we talked a bit after to catch up. It was not weird. I asked about us and if she wanted to get back together and said no. Didn’t really want to talk about it so she made it clear that she does not want to be with me.

So i left and the next day i talked to her and told her that last night was great and wondered if we could do it again and see where we are. She said we could another time if it worked out and such. But it wont be a regular thing that happens. I can control my emotions and i want to do it but I want to be with her.

She is a very stubborn person and when she makes up her mind on something she sticks with it. So no matter what i say about getting back together she didn’t want to talk about it. But it makes me wonder if she dose not want to get back together and dose not feel the same then she would not want to have sex. When we had sex we had it like when we were dating. It was very passionate.

Now I know a lot of you are going to say to move on and she is not worth it but I love her and I know that she feels the same way. She just does not want to get hurt or make the mistake of getting back together and it dosent work out. My view is we try and what’s the worst that can happen? Then it wasn’t meant to be. I have changed a lot since when we broke up. I have had a lot of time to reflect and realize what I did wrong and I want her to know that and take a chance on me again. I just dont know what to do and want this to work.

Thanks everyone for your help!

So basically, she will have sex with you, but won’t get back together with you?
No, a relationship like that will never work, because basically, you are just being friends with benefits.
Forget about her. Move on.

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I want to get back together with him. I broke up with him the other day and I realized what a big mistake it was. I told him we should be friends. I know I can’t find someone better than him. But I have been so mean to him though. I broke up with him two times before that. First time I said we should take everything slow and be friends. Second time my friends yelled at him and said that me and him are over. He thought she was joking and was upset that I didn’t defend him. I didn’t have any feelings for him at all when we were together. I only said yes to being his girlfriend because I wanted to get this guy jealous and I didn’t want to say no. But we can’t get back together because it is officially over. My friend and him were talking and he said that we broke up (first time he admitted it). And he said that he never really liked me that much and wouldn’t be surprised that I didn’t either. My friend was bout to tell him that I didn’t like him too but decided not to because she thought it would be mean. I want him back now. I know karma is a *****. I am a ***** but I regret what I did. When I broke up with him it was so hard even saying we should break up. I accidently blurted it out and after that five minutes later I regretted it. I didn’t know my feelings. There has to be some way to get him back.. What should I do?
I know I know. Ex’s are for a reason. I always said that myself. But this is different. I broke up with him yet I still have feelings for him. I am so stupid for doing it.

You cannot make someone come back and he’s your ex for a reason.

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I’m still in love with this guy, so this is really hard. I much rather get him back.

How’d you get him the first time?
Maybe that’ll help w/ the second time?

But usually something has to change for 2 people to get back together, remember that.

Good luck=)

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