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We’ve broken up two months ago. She met someone on the internet and she can’t stop talking to him. He even calls her on the phone.
She told me that she has no other man, and that she feels that we are not destend to be together.
But I know that she still loves me, because she told me. And I’m werry sad. I will like to have her back.
What should I do?

You have to understand that you can’t just magically get her back. You have to let her new relationship play out, and if it doesn’t work out, then you have a chance with her again.

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He apologized for blocking me on Facebook. He broke up with me. I’ve done my best to not have any contact with him at all. I spoke to him the other day because he wrote a message saying he wanted to. He was talking to one of my friends who told him I was still interested in him but he asked whether there was anything I wanted to say besides offering friendship, which I did. I told him that he was right about the breakup. The conversation was not hostile and he had written the day before he’s not angry anymore. I figured that I shouldn’t push in order to pull him toward me. Did I do the right thing or should I tell him how I feel? This isn’t the first time he wanted to talk about the relationship over the phone. By the way, this is long distance too.
I can’t truly tell whether he wants a relationship. He writes that he loves me despite everything but he also writes in a way that he’s okay that I have moved on (which is untrue but he thinks it). He says he wants to be a father to my son but says he still can’t trust me so he can’t pursue it. He has said this multiple times over two months. This was written before the latest phone call and the last contact. Since this phone call neither of us have said anything.

If you want him back and he wants you back tell him how you truly feel.

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Controversial Tactics to Win an Ex Back – Give Up Wanting Your Ex So That Your Ex Will Want You Back

Perhaps you have already broken up with your ex but you still want him/her back. So you tried all sort of things and take all sort of action, but it doesn’t seem to work. Why is that so?

Well, the fact is if you try to use logical methods to win your ex back, it can make the situation worse and the result may not be what you desire.

For example, you tried calling your ex. Your ex did not pick up the phone. What will you do next? Most probably, you will be tempted to take the logical approach.

“Well, if he/she did not pick up the phone, I will call him/her until he/she answers me.”

This is a very logical step that most people will take, but it is definitely not the best move. The truth is that because of panic, you will be anxious to call your ex over and over again until he/she picks up the phone.

This is a sign of desperation and your ex can sense it. If not, why are you calling him/her so often and so urgently?

Don’t do that. That will only make the situation worse. Instead, you will want to use the controversial tactics instead.

Perhaps, it will be very helpful to you if you know some basic human psychology. The fact is people desire what they do not or cannot easily have. If you can get something very easily, you will not desire it so much.

And that is why logical approach fails while controversial tactics work so much better.

In the logical approach, you are giving your ex the signal that he/she can easily get your back as and when he/she wants, since you are the one who is eager to get him/her back. This explains why your ex is not too keen to get back together with you.

So, why not try the controversial approach instead. Tell your ex that you respect his/her decision over the break up. You don’t want to call him/her to tell her that. Instead, sent your ex a letter instead.

You need to convey that you are alright with the break up. You don’t want to argue over the break up. This will open the door for you should you want to win your ex back in the future.

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allan lim usa
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/controversial-tactics-to-win-an-ex-back-give-up-wanting-your-ex-so-that-your-ex-will-want-you-back-697823.html

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How to win back your ex if your ex seems to be avoiding you? I have tried very hard to contact my ex but my ex simply refuses to pick up the phone. All I hear is a voice mail. I tried text messaging but I also did not receive any reply. How am I going to win back my ex if I can’t even get the chance to talk?

Perhaps you are facing the same situation as the one described above? So, how can I get my ex to talk to me eventually?

Well, it will depend on the stages of your break up?

Have you broken up with your ex for quite some time already? Or have you just broken up with your ex only a few days ago. Depending on how youre your break up is, the things that you need to do will be different.

For example, if you have just broken up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, it is actually best that you do not even try to contact your ex. First, you are probably quite emotionally unstable now and may be in a state of confusion.

With this state of mind, you might end up doing or saying the wrong thing to your ex. This can make the situation worse and it is something that you will want to avoid at all cost.

Second, your ex may also be in the same emotional state as you, even if it is your ex who initiated the break up. This may explain the reason why your ex is avoiding you. Perhaps, your ex is not ready to talk to you yet. It might be better to contact your ex about one month later.

Remember this, if your ex is avoiding you now, it doesn’t mean you ex will avoid you forever. Sometimes, it is just a matter of being more patient. Perhaps, your ex still needs some space?

If this is the case, just give him/her the space. Contact him/her again once you believe both of you are ready to talk to one another again.

Allan Lim
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/how-to-win-back-your-ex-how-to-win-your-ex-back-if-heshe-is-avoiding-you-526700.html

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Breakups can be messy, very messy. You may be prone to make bad choices, choices you wouldnt have dared made before the breakup. There are several common mistakes people make but two most important mistakes that can kill any chance of your winning back your ex include drunken dialing and text message terrorism.

(1) Drunk Dialing

If you havent experienced this yourself, chances areyou know someone who has done it. What is it? Its those late night phone calls you think will do you good but dont. Who do you call? The person who you just broken up with, in fact. You may plead your case but you probably do so in a manner that does nothing more for them other than them going, Yep, okay, whatever and hang up. Never call your ex when you have been drinking. In fact, the best thing to do during those hurtful times is to not touch alcohol at all.

(2) Text Message Terrorism

Everybody has been guilty at one stage or another of burning up the phone lines with repeated calls to someone. Text message terrorism isnt limited to just text messaging. It means calling your ex repeatedly by way of phone, email, or text messages. When you decide to go this route, your ex is bound to change his or her number and email, regardless of the cost. You realized later by doing this it doesn’t win your ex back.

What should you be doing to win your ex back? Close those lines of communication for about a month. Work through your pain and anger and absolutely do not engage in negative behaviors that could lead to these two mistakes. If you are forced to see each other through work or school, be civil and kind but absolutely no personal discussions of any sort.

Teecee Go
http://www.articlesbase.com/breakup-articles/the-2-common-mistakes-that-wont-win-your-ex-back-709780.html

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