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My ex and I have been broken up for about a month. A week after breaking up with me, he calls me and plans a "date". The date didnt fall through as planned. He did tell me he still likes me but is still confused. That ends up confusing me. He still texts me and we talk on the phone occassionally. I try to ignore him, but its so hard. I feel if I act as a friend then maybe he will see that i have changed and will want me back. Hes really nice to me but I cant figure out if he wants me back. What should i do? Hang out with him to prove that I’m a different and improved person? What can I do to win him over? I feel like it maybe possible to do.

If things didnt work out the first time why do you want him back? He’s confused, let him be without out you. He’s just going to keep planning dates and then flake out on you. Move on and enjoy life. Dont let him hold you up from your happiness.

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here is the story i am a country boy she is a city girl and well we have be dating for 9 months and just recently she told me she didn’t feel the same for me anymore. how do i fixed our relationship and make her feel special again?

please help me out im stuck

Hi buddy

Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.

Here are 3 steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together

You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

You’re only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.

Don’t Be Jealous

Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

Be Flexible

Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.

These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back.
all the best

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me and my ex have only been broken up for 4 days and i want him back. he is my world, my everything, my happiness, and most importantly my other half. i’ve done everything from begging him to acting like he didn’t exist. he told me that he loves me its just he doesn’t want to be broken hearted so he rather break my heart then his. i’m up for anything and type of advise. but please just don’t tell me to move on. i cant move on. and please most of all don’t tell me i’m either to young or i don’t know what love is cause i do know what love is. i’ve never felt this way about anybody else!

Hi

Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.

If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:

1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to remove your negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.

Don’t let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.

2.Don’t annoy your ex boyfriend. Men just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously call, sms him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s very important give your ex boyfriend time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.

3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When looking good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.

hope it helps

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we had a good relationship we dated for about a month but then i had to let her go
so we stayed friends for 3 weeks and now i want her back i miss her like crazy
i cant stop thinking about her…..she never text back or call me any more
i tryed calling her but she just hangs up i hope she ain’t playing with my mind

Hi buddy

Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.

Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together

You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.

Don’t Be Jealous

Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

Being Flexible Is Very Important

Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.

These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back.
good luck

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http://www.BestGuideOnly.com/get-ex-back – Signs Your Ex Wants You Back

There are definitely common signs that your ex is interested in getting you back.

But even if you want to get back with your ex, you should not simply jump into things.

The best way to play things is to play hard to get (in moderation), which is probably what your ex will best respond to anyway.

If you simply jump into things full force, then you may find your ex pushing you back again.

If you are wondering “does my ex want to get back with me” the odds are that your ex may be thinking the same thing for the same reasons.

Sometimes when an ex shows interest again following a break up however, it is only a game.

They may see that you love them, and they may simply be trying to get attention, without actually intending to get you back.

So, unless your ex really seems genuinely interested in spending time with you, they may just be passing the time because they have no other prospects on the horizon.

And worst of all they may see this as a way to get revenge for some perceived wrong.

This is why it is important not to jump the gun, and why you should focus on reading into the situation before you act on it.

To learn more about How to Get Your Ex Back, please visit:
http://www.BestGuideOnly.com/get-ex-back

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