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Whats a good way to get my recent ex back?
Hey everybody. My xgirlfriend dumped me last night and it’s killing me. it has only been a day and i want her back. she said she wanted to dump me because she wanted to keep her best guy friend. i understand that but i really REALLY like her. what can i do to get her back and how long should i wait
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How can I get my ex-boyfriend back?
There’s this guy I like. We dated back in September for about a week. I still like him. Well I liked him for a long while then I stopped but now I like him again. There’s only one problem… He’s a HUGE player. By the way I’m 13 turning 14 in September. I know a lot of people will say oh just get over him he’s just one guy there are plenty more out there besides your only 13. The thing is I love him I really do and I would do anything to have just one more chance with him.
I should probably mention one other thing. I was kinda obsessed with him foe a while. I didn’t mean to be but I couldn’t help myself. And now his mom hates me cuz I called to much. But i’m not that way anymore. I know how to control myself. Soo if anyone has any advice to get him back I would really appreciate it. And I don’t need anyone giving me crap about this because I’ve already hear enough from my friends. Thanks
Sweetie, no. Seriously. No. This guy is a HUGE player whose mother hates you because you were obsessed with him and called too much. How does this sound good, on any level? You aren’t star crossed lovers babe. You want him because he doesn’t want you. That is normal at your age, but go find another cute boy whose mom doesn’t hate your guts to be your boyfriend.
And yes, people are going to be telling you to get over him. Particularly older people. Because we have ALL been there. And it sucked for us all. If you take our advice, it will suck a little bit less for you.
Please help me . How can i get my ex back ?
We are now broken up for 2 months . Yeah , and I’m still not over him . Believe me , I’ve been trying . I told myself I was better without him and that i cud find another guy . I put myself out there again around a month and a half , and three guys asked me out . I said no to two of them and said maybe to one. I started having a thingg with that "maybe" one . buuut it didn’t click . He was perfect , but it just didn’t feel right . I missed my ex . Too much . How we ended was a weird one . We were a great couple . People at school were jealous and wished they had our relationship . One night , we were just fighting through text about how he was getting obsessed over baseball and how it was taking over his life . Some things were said that hurt a lot , and well … he broke up with me . The next morning before school ? He wanted me back . We agreed to wait a week so things could calm down in school . EVERYONE was bugging us . It was impossible . The whole week he would tell me how much he still loves me and I said it a few times back , too . I couldn’t lie to him . He broke up with me on a monday , so that friday , I was going to ask him out again . But literally before I could , he yelled at me about a rumor that I was flirting with this other guy and did some stuff . HECK NO! I told him that and he said sorry after we fought . Monday came . . . I asked him out . He was surprised actually . Tuesday came and then Wednesday , he said he didn’t think we should go out anymore . Said we should still be friends . We still texted . Goodness . . . a lot has happened since then . . . this girl he started liking , him saying my best friend was hot , him hearing that I was saying things about him and getting mad about it , him saying he wanted to go out in the future , him saying he still liked me a little , that he doesnt and he does , that im better off without him , that he told himself he could live without me and eventually he believed it , that he said we went as far as we could , that he got bored with the relationship , that he couldnt make me happy , that i should be with a guy that would make me happy . This was all spread out thruout the past 2 months . Not all at once after the breakup . Recently , I found out he still misses me sometimes . . . I dont know whut to do . How can I get him back ??? Do I play hard-to-get ? Please don’t give me some crap online about "The Magic Formula to Love" or something that’s just a scam . And please don’t tell me to move on and that there are other guys out there , because I’ve heard it all . I tried believing everything people told me , and nope . My heart still wants him . I tried convincing him that he was the only one… FAIL . I tried telling him I missed him… FAIL . I tried ignoring him for 2 weeks and he did text me . WHAT DO I DO ? PLEASE GIVE ME A PLAN 
Act like nothing is wrong. They’re not going to want you back if you’re acting depressed. Make sure you’re laughing a lot and pretending to have a good time. This is so hard because of the break up depression.
You need to make them come crawling back to you. By taking advantage of very specific psychological "hot buttons", you can cause your ex to want you back. It’s actually not even that hard if you know what specific buttons to push.
You find more about using psychology to win them back here http://www.sodahead.com/living/how-to-get-your-ex-back—10-mistakes-that-you-should-not-make/blog-365563
When your ex gets back in touch, DO NOT start talking to them about your relationship right away! Even if they desperately wants you back, they’ve probably not ready to talk about the break-up. Instead, pretend as if you had never dated and treat them purely as an old friend.
This will help you put them at ease and allow you to gradually nudge them towards reconciliation rather than running the risk of scaring them away.
How Do I Get My Ex Back ?
We are now broken up for 2 months . Yeah , and I’m still not over him . Believe me , I’ve been trying . I told myself I was better without him and that i cud find another guy . I put myself out there again around a month and a half , and three guys asked me out . I said no to two of them and said maybe to one. I started having a thingg with that "maybe" one . buuut it didn’t click . He was perfect , but it just didn’t feel right . I missed my ex . Too much . How we ended was a weird one . We were a great couple . People at school were jealous and wished they had our relationship . One night , we were just fighting through text about how he was getting obsessed over baseball and how it was taking over his life . Some things were said that hurt a lot , and well … he broke up with me . The next morning before school ? He wanted me back . We agreed to wait a week so things could calm down in school . EVERYONE was bugging us . It was impossible . The whole week he would tell me how much he still loves me and I said it a few times back , too . I couldn’t lie to him . He broke up with me on a monday , so that friday , I was going to ask him out again . But literally before I could , he yelled at me about a rumor that I was flirting with this other guy and did some stuff . HECK NO! I told him that and he said sorry after we fought . Monday came . . . I asked him out . He was surprised actually . Tuesday came and then Wednesday , he said he didn’t think we should go out anymore . Said we should still be friends . We still texted . Goodness . . . a lot has happened since then . . . this girl he started liking , him saying my best friend was hot , him hearing that I was saying things about him and getting mad about it , him saying he wanted to go out in the future , him saying he still liked me a little , that he doesnt and he does , that im better off without him , that he told himself he could live without me and eventually he believed it , that he said we went as far as we could , that he got bored with the relationship , that he couldnt make me happy , that i should be with a guy that would make me happy . This was all spread out thruout the past 2 months . Not all at once after the breakup . Recently , I found out he still misses me sometimes . . . I dont know whut to do . How can I get him back ??? Do I play hard-to-get ? Please don’t give me some crap online about "The Magic Formula to Love" or something that’s just a scam . And please don’t tell me to move on and that there are other guys out there , because I’ve heard it all . I tried believing everything people told me , and nope . My heart still wants him . I tried convincing him that he was the only one… FAIL . I tried telling him I missed him… FAIL . I tried ignoring him for 2 weeks and he did text me . WHAT DO I DO ? PLEASE GIVE ME A PLAN
I’ve actually seen this a lot. I think you should stay friends with him to start with. Don’t pressure him about having a relationship AT ALL. He could just take advantage of those feelings and string you along. You need to become a little more independent. I promise it will help the relationship in the long run.
The first step to getting him back is making yourself happy. No one wants a desperate girl. If your happy he’s going to realize you don’t need him and it’ll take some of the pressure off him because he probably thinks you need him to make yourself happy. No one wants that responsibility. To be honest, it seems that he just feels pressured.
I know that’s easier said then done but you should try joining a club or getting closer to your friends (your single friends because the ones in relationships are only going to want to make you have a relationship)
If you really want him back, I’d stay away from ALL boys who could be potential future boyfriends because they will only cause issues between you and him. Plus, you could end up hurting on of the boys your talking to (and if it doesn’t work out with your ex, you could have just lost a great future boyfriend)
I hope that helps (:
how to get my ex back?
me and this guy dated r 8th grade and freshman yr and tht has been 4 yrs ago. and recently i have been thinking about him a lot and having dreams and i have started gettin feeling bck for him. wat should i do?
How to get your ex back? Learn to spell.
