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My girlfriend and I broke up for the second time back in January. It was because she needed a break from me and it was to much for her. She had be avoiding me so I pushed to find out why and I guess she thought it was to much and didn’t like where we were. We have not spoken much since. We talked briefly two weeks ago about our weekend and that type of small talk and then she texted me on friday night. It was the usual back and forth talk and then we preceded to mention that she missed sex with me and how amazing it was. and it was. when we had sex it was so good. She we talked so more and agreed that we should do it that night. I was studying that night so i could not go out like she wanted me to so she was drunk when she sent it but had sobered up when we got together. So we had sex and it was great. It wasn’t awkward and we talked a bit after to catch up. It was not weird. I asked about us and if she wanted to get back together and said no. Didn’t really want to talk about it so she made it clear that she does not want to be with me.

So i left and the next day i talked to her and told her that last night was great and wondered if we could do it again and see where we are. She said we could another time if it worked out and such. But it wont be a regular thing that happens. I can control my emotions and i want to do it but I want to be with her.

She is a very stubborn person and when she makes up her mind on something she sticks with it. So no matter what i say about getting back together she didn’t want to talk about it. But it makes me wonder if she dose not want to get back together and dose not feel the same then she would not want to have sex. When we had sex we had it like when we were dating. It was very passionate.

Now I know a lot of you are going to say to move on and she is not worth it but I love her and I know that she feels the same way. She just does not want to get hurt or make the mistake of getting back together and it dosent work out. My view is we try and what’s the worst that can happen? Then it wasn’t meant to be. I have changed a lot since when we broke up. I have had a lot of time to reflect and realize what I did wrong and I want her to know that and take a chance on me again. I just dont know what to do and want this to work.

Thanks everyone for your help!

So basically, she will have sex with you, but won’t get back together with you?
No, a relationship like that will never work, because basically, you are just being friends with benefits.
Forget about her. Move on.

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i want to know if i still stand a chance of getting my ex girlfriend back after cheating on her.

That would depend on a lot of things. One, if the love you had for each other is very strong. Two, if your relationship was not focused on the negatives. Three, if your girlfriend has the ability to forgive you and forget about your infidelity. And four, if you really are repentant about what you did and are serious about changing for the better.
I think this resource will help you. It’s an ebook called Ex Recovery System by Ashley Kay. You can get a lot of helpful tips from there.

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Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back With the Right Attitude

Getting dumped isn’t any fun, that’s pretty much the same wherever you go. What’s not the same from place to place is who manages to pull off a turn-around and gets back with his or her ex girlfriend… so what’s the distinguishing factor for who succeeds and who fails? The answer is simple: it’s all in the attitude.

You ever heard the phrase “attitude makes the difference?” It’s a slogan for some ad campaign…an anti-bullying campaign for kids or something. The point is, it’s true. Attitude makes a huge difference in whatever you’re doing, and very much so when you’re seeking to get your ex back.

Keeping a positive attitude will help you to avoid falling into the pit of depression that the unfortunate majority of recently broken-up-with guys do. Sinking into a void like that is pretty much the end, so don’t let yourself! Keep up a healthy motivation and an almost infuriatingly positive attitude towards your efforts, and plow through your struggles. Also, keep in mind the following tips:

1) Figuring out what went wrong in the relationship and then fixing those problems is one of the key parts of pulling off a reunion between you and your ex girlfriend. A new incarnation of the same exact relationship, flaws and all, is just going to fail like the first one did. If you want to have a real shot at keeping her this time, you need to figure out what took out the first try…specifically what of it was your fault, and fix it so that it’ll never affect your relationships again.

2) Rushing back into the relationship is going the right way for another heartbreak. Chances are good your ex girlfriend isn’t going to want to take things too fast, and pressuring her with relationship talk is just going to drive her away. Take things easy and at her pace. Start small, like with a simple phone call. You may feel like you’re giving her too much room to ‘escape,’ but giving her that space is vastly beneficial to your efforts.

3) Once you’ve managed to get her back and are happily back on track alongside her, it’s important to keep the changes you’ve made in order to get her back. This is where a lot of people make the critical mistake of reverting back to their old ways…the ones that made the relationship fall through. This is a great thing to do, if you want your current relationship to end the same way… and probably not have much chance to revive it a second time.

It’s important not to forget any of these things, but the most important is to make sure that attitude of yours is steadily on track. Staying positive will not only help you in your efforts to get your girl back, but throughout all areas of your life. Maintaining a healthy outlook on things has enabled people to do incredible things… so why not you?

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i dated this guy, lets call him Frank, we dated fer a few days over a month,i was 16 and he was 18. im currently 17 and he is still 18. he was my first everything, from hand holding to kissing to sex. then he randomly became mean so i couldn’t take it and broke up with him. its been about 8 months since our breakup and i have a new amazing boyfriend who treats me like gold. but all the time i randomly start thinking about my ex and i talk about him a lot, even to my boyfriend. me and ‘frank" never talk. and if we do, he is saying something mean (like im ugly and he never loved me) but he used to always say i was beautiful and stuff. he has a girlfriend now. and ive seen him once these past 8 months, and when i saw him he kept looking at me. my friends say he probably still loves me and wants me back. but it doesn’t show because he hasn’t said one nice word to me since the breakup. another bad thing is that about a month after me and him broke up, i dated his brother to get him jealous, and frank forced him to break up with me! i wanna know either, how to get him back, how to figure out why he hates me, if he still loves me.
its been 8 months. im dying here.
i need answers!

You betrayed him by dating his brother. It is something you Never do, ever. He is hurt by that and probably loved you more than you will ever know. I think if you really want to set the record straight with him you should write him a letter and tell him why you dated his brother. You did it to see if he really loved you and to make him jealous but there was nothing to it at all and whether or not you ever see Frank again that you want him to know he will ALWAYS be your first love.

Then give it some time, as long as it takes. I guarantee he will be back one day and forgive you. Meanwhile enjoy your new guy and don’t worry so much about this. Frank still thinks you are beautiful and will always love you. He said those ugly things because he is hurting and he was looking at you because he loves you still. When you see him again, just smile and maybe wink at him. He will think about it. Don’t talk to him just smile. Makes him wonder if he is now with the right girl. Good luck but he’ll be back.

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I made a really dumbass mistake. I really loved my girlfriend, but a couple of years ago, don’t ask why but I was a jerk and dumped her for someone else. I still really love her. I have been talking to her every day, but I don’t know what to do. Can someone please help me?

Hello

Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.

Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together

You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

You’re only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

So don’t ignore someone’s texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.

Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go

Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

Being Flexible Is Very Important

Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.

These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really serious about getting your ex girlfriend back soon as possible I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back.
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Hope it helps.

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