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		<title>Dating Advice:  End the Cycle of Failed Relationships and Find a Great Partner</title>
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<p>Are you tired of starting new relationships, getting emotionally attached, getting hurt, and breaking up?  Would you like to find a better way without resigning yourself to staying single?   </p>
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Despite our best intentions and efforts, things sometimes just don&#8217;t work out.  People can fail once or twice due to any number of unforeseen factors.  But, when we repeatedly have the same kind of failure, we cannot afford to attribute it to chance.  Repeated relationship failures, like any other kind of repeated failures are directly connected to the way that we do things.  </p>
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Obviously, in order to have different results, we must take different actions.  But what do we change?  How do we change?  Just thinking that we should behave differently is not enough to bring about change.  To change, we must actually do things differently.</p>
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1.  Change your vision from looking backward to looking forward.  Stop idealizing some past relationship.  If it really was ideal, you would still have it.  You can do better.  If you don&#8217;t believe you can do better than you have, you will settle for worse than you have had.  Where will that get you?</p>
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2.  Balance your life. Would you buy a car before you have the financial resources to make the payments?  Many people do.  What happens?  At first they are excited with their new car, but then they are stressed by the bills and come to regret buying the car in the first place.  People who enter relationships because they are emotionally needy are not in good shape to maintain one.  When your life is already going great, you will be positive, exciting, and attractive to wonderful potential partners.  When you are desperate and needy, you will not be.  You will get into relationships that are bad for you and the best partners will not be attracted to you.</p>
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3. Define your dream partner.  What is he or she like?  This must be done before you get involved with someone.  Once involved, we change our desires to match the person we are involved with.  Do you want someone who talks with you, is gentle, and likes quiet activities?  Do you want someone who loves adventure, trusts you, and is financially sound?  Where does he or she live?  What kind of work does he or she do?  What&#8217;s his or her income level?  How does he or she dress?  What does he or she value the most?  You must dare to believe in order to dare to achieve.</p>
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4.  Become a dream partner.  That dream partner you want to have also has a dream partner of his or her own.  Take time to figure out what their dream partner is liable to be like.  If you cannot be a good match for your partner, it&#8217;s just as bad as if you find the wrong person for yourself.  An adventurous person would probably like an adventurous partner, for example.  Are you really adventurous or do you just think it would be nice to be that way?  If you want to find someone who enjoys talking to you, are you a good listener?  Do you need to work on that first?  Planning to change after you are in a relationship will not be any better than finding a partner and then trying to change him or her.</p>
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Of course, you don&#8217;t need to do these things to find someone.  Poor relationships come cheaply.  Great relationships, like anything of value, come at a cost.  If you are willing to do the work, you can have a partner and relationship that is the envy of your friends.  Your best chance of accomplishing these changes is with someone who has helped others to do the same.  Ten books on teeth care will not help you like one dentist can.  Neither will 10 books on relationships help you like one relationship coach can.  Believe, dream, achieve, and use the resources at your disposal to get what you want in life.  That is what successful people do.</p>
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<p>Jack Ito PhD is a licensed psychologist and relationship coach. For 14 years he has helped more than 1000 men and women to have better relationships.&#13;<br />
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		<title>Saving Your Marriage &#8211; Is This Really the End? Two Facts You Must Know</title>
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<p>I&#8217;m not in love anymore, we&#8217;ve grown apart, I&#8217;ve been hurt, I&#8217;m angry, I&#8217;m resentful, I&#8217;ve had enough and right now I just want out!</p>
<p>Is this the end?</p>
<p>Literally hundreds of thousands of married couples across the globe have felt this way as evidenced by staggering and increasing divorce rates. Saving a marriage is not easy when the loving trust vital for any marriage has been destroyed by lies, deceit, unfaithfulness, anger, lack of respect or affection or time, or sometimes violence, abuse, domination or a myriad of other reasons. Unaddressed and unchecked these destructive behaviours inevitably lead to the breakdown of the relationship and sadly divorce.</p>
<p>Over time if neglected a marriage can transform from a beautiful, loving and fulfilling relationship into an awful, spiteful, heartbreaking disaster. Unfortunately social &#8216;progression&#8217; has been such that the importance of the institution of marriage has been degraded to the point that we regard divorce and starting over as a normal, acceptable and indeed preferable option.</p>
<p>As a consequence you can often look to what the next relationship can or will offer instead of looking at saving your marriage. You seek to put the past way, way behind you but in this you cheat yourself of the opportunity to develop the kind of relationship we are all longing for &#8211; a lasting, loving, joyous and fulfilling relationship.</p>
<p>So why does this happen?</p>
<p>Experts and marriage books frequently speak of two facts that we all know but very few understand or consider them in relation to saving a marriage.</p>
<p>First &#8211; when we meet someone new we experience that initial intense &#8216;in love&#8217; feeling however over time it fades.</p>
<p>We have all experienced that almost overwhelming feeling of love when we meet someone new and we know we have found &#8216;the one&#8217;! It is euphoric, wonderful and lifts us up emotionally and physically. We think about this new person constantly, can&#8217;t wait to be with them and feel great and intense joy. We seek ways to be together as much as possible and start planning a future together.</p>
<p>We know this happens. It has happened to us before, perhaps many times. Sadly, although we have been through this before we can still be blinded by it&#8217;s power and intensity into believing that this time it is the real thing and it will last forever.</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t. These intense feelings experienced through what we call the &#8216;honeymoon period&#8217; can last up to two years but eventually fade as reality and familiarity take hold. We know this happens but often neglect to develop the relationship skills to perpetuate that &#8216;in love&#8217; feeling. These skills are also vital in saving your marriage. Which brings us to fact number two.</p>
<p>A successful marriage does not come about by chance you have to &#8216;work&#8217; at a marriage.</p>
<p>Your father probably gave you this advice before you were married and again it is something we all know. However some fail to acknowledge it&#8217;s importance or do anything about it before it is too late. When looking at saving your marriage this is absolutely vital. Some understand the need to work on their marriage but don&#8217;t understand what type of &#8216;work&#8217; is actually needed for their particular marriage. Take, for example, the man who works long hours to provide a bigger house, fine furniture, expensive cars and clothes who, in this way, expresses his love. Undoubtedly from his perspective he is working on his marriage. His wife however resents the lack of time with her husband, becomes lonely and the marriage starts to decay. He was working on his marriage but in the wrong way.</p>
<p>Marriage books, experts, families and counsellors speak of these two things because an understanding of them is essential in building or saving a marriage. Being reminded of them when it seems like the relationship is over can be the spark that sets despairing couples on the road to recovery and although it may seem like it&#8217;s the end it is never to late to rebuild. I have seen marriages seemingly ripped apart by deceit and infidelity become better and stronger than they ever were. It is possible to find once again that &#8216;in love&#8217; experience and develop the skills to build an unbreakable foundation of real love that will survive the test of time.</p>
<p><a target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:_gaq.push(['_trackPageview', '/outgoing/article_exit_link']);" href="http://www.marriagebooksonline.com/">Saving your marriage</a> is possible. Although divorce rates are high, marriage rates are higher and increasing. There is immense value in preserving marriage. One of the great advantages of the technological age we are in is the vast array of information and assistance that is available to those who will seek after it. The internet alone hold a vast range of marriage books, articles and videos aimed at saving your marriage. More than ever before we have access to the tools and resources that can enable us to transform our marriage, even at their worst. The first step is to seek after that information and begin to apply what we learn. This is NOT the end!</p>
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<p>Devoted husband, father of three and dedicated believer in the institution of marriage, Thomas A Parker writes from personal experience of divorce and subsequent blissful marriage. He writes out of a desire to help others transform their relationships.</p>
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<p><strong>What do you do if you have an unhappy marriage? </strong></p>
<p>It is common for couples these days to resolve their unhappiness by seeking a divorce. However, things do not have to end up that way. Here are 4 tips to help you end the unhappiness in a marriage without going through the divorce procedures.</p>
<p><strong>1. Resolve problems together</strong><br />First of all, you have to remember that there are no perfect marriages. Every couple faces problems and arguments but the key issue is how these are resolved. When you are faced with financial, health or even emotional problems, do not dwell on the issues or find faults with each other. That is not going to solve your problems. Instead, take these difficulties as challenges and solve them together. Staying positive will help to make you grow stronger both as an individual and as a couple and thus help to bond your marriage closer. </p>
<p><strong>2. Rekindle the passion</strong><br /> A lot of married couples tend to forget why and how they fell in love with each other in the first place. These days, most couples are very busy with their careers and family so they forgot to appreciate each other&#8217;s company. Over time, they feel that they have landed themselves in an unhappy marriage and start to consider a divorce. Sadly, they feel that a breakup is the only way to end their unhappiness. There is really no need for things to get to that extent, unless you are in an abusive relationship.</p>
<p>You should rekindle that passion that had caused both of you to fall madly in love during the good old days. You can look through the old photographs together or even revisit the places where you used to frequent during your courtship days. Make it a point to spend time alone together each day or at least once a week. You can show your love for each other by buying or making little gifts to give to each other. You can also plan for getaway trips occasionally or have a quiet dinner at a restaurant, away from the kids. This will help to fire up that old flame you have for each other again.</p>
<p><strong>3. Maintain an open communication </strong><br />Maintaining an open communication is important in order to let your spouse know what you are thinking and feeling. Your wants and needs can then be made known to each other, otherwise, the danger of drifting apart is high.</p>
<p><strong>4. Seek professional help</strong><br />This is my last point because many couples prefer to use this only as a last resort. Usually it is because they feel awkward with a third party intruding in their private lives. Many might not be prepared to be honest with each other and with themselves, especially not in front of an outsider. </p>
<p>However, this marriage counselor will be a great help to you if you have tried many other methods but nothing seems to work. Being a professional, the counselor will be able to lead both of you to find out what had really gone wrong in your marriage and how you can remediate the issues without having to file for a divorce.</p>
<p>In fact, if things cannot be resolved on your own and you feel shy about seeing your local marriage counselor, you might want to consider consulting an online marriage counselor instead. This expert will be able to help you resolve your differences but you do not have to meet the counselor to get help. Alternatively, you can also get additional help from sources such as ebooks to help you save marriage. </p>
<p>The above are just 4 tips which you could use to help you end an unhappy marriage. Regardless of which method you try, you will be able to see some results. Staying positive in your thinking and being able to understand, forgive and have patience is vital to your success at saving your marriage.</p>
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		<title>What are some good songs to get back together?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2010 10:29:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Me and my boyfriend of 10 months broke up, what are some sweet getting back together songs? Nearly anything by boyz ii men. (on bended knee, please don&#8217;t do, end of the road, to name a few.) Also Good: Janet Jackson&#8217;s come back to me, wishing on a star by beyonce, can&#8217;t let go by [...]<p><a href="http://togetbackex.com/get-back-together/what-are-some-good-songs-to-get-back-together/">What are some good songs to get back together?</a> is a post from: <a href="	http://togetbackex.com/momu">To Get Back Ex</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Me and my <a target="_blank" title="boyfriend" href=" http://togetbackex.com">boyfriend</a> of 10 months broke up, what are some sweet getting <a target="_blank" title="back together" href=" http://togetbackex.com">back together</a> songs?<br />
<br />Nearly anything by boyz ii men. (on bended knee, please don&#8217;t do, end of the road, to name a few.)<br />
Also Good: Janet Jackson&#8217;s come back to me, wishing on a star by beyonce, can&#8217;t let go by Mariah carey, my all by Mariah Carey. I love you by Dru hill</p>
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		<title>Can I Get My Ex Back &#8211; Tips for Getting Back Together After Breaking Up</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 May 2010 21:42:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can I Get My Ex Back &#8211; Tips For Getting Back Together After Breaking Up Is it possible to get back together after a break up? Perhaps, you may be thinking that getting back together is impossible and a break up spells the end of your relationship. Well, it doesn&#8217;t have to turn out that [...]<p><a href="http://togetbackex.com/get-back-together/can-i-get-my-ex-back-tips-for-getting-back-together-after-breaking-up/">Can I Get My Ex Back &#8211; Tips for Getting Back Together After Breaking Up</a> is a post from: <a href="	http://togetbackex.com/momu">To Get Back Ex</a></p>
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<p>Can I Get My Ex Back &#8211; Tips For Getting <a target="_blank" title="Back Together" href=" http://togetbackex.com">Back Together</a> After Breaking Up</p>
<p>Is it possible to get back together after a break up? Perhaps, you may be thinking that getting back together is impossible and a break up spells the end of your relationship.</p>
<p> 
<p>Well, it doesn&#8217;t have to turn out that way. Breaking up is certainly not the end of all relationships. While I have to agree that not all relationships can be saved or are worth saving, your situation may be different.</p>
<p> 
<p>Below are some tips that may help increase your chances of success to get your ex back.</p>
<p> 
<p>Perhaps a very important thing that you have to be aware of is this:</p>
<p> 
<p>Many men and women tend to make certain mistakes in their quest to get their ex back. You want to know hat these mistakes are so that you can avoid the trap.</p>
<p> 
<p>1)     Calling ex over and over again. Sometimes, even to the extent of 20 to 30 times per hour.</p>
<p> 
<p>Alright, you may think that I am exaggerating above. But there is some element of truth to this.</p>
<p> 
<p>This is a typical scenario. Peter just broke up with Jane. Jane starts to panic. She called Peter. Peter never picked up the phone. Jane becomes even more panicky. </p>
<p> 
<p>So she keeps on calling and calling hoping that Peter will pick up the phone.</p>
<p> 
<p>Why is this mistake? Well, it is a sign of desperation and neediness. Nobody wants a partner who is desperate and needy.</p>
<p> 
<p>Let us look at the next common mistake.</p>
<p> 
<p>2)     Arguing over the break up</p>
<p> 
<p>Let me first define what I meant by &#8220;Arguing&#8221;. Generally, it includes begging, saying you love him/her, showing your ex that he/she is wrong, etc. All these tricks won&#8217;t work.</p>
<p> 
<p>Like what is mentioned above, all these are also signs of desperation and neediness. You have to be careful about that.</p>
<p> 
<p>Of course, there are many more mistakes than those two mentioned above. </p>
<p> 
<p>However, we won&#8217;t be able to discuss them all in this article. But a good guideline that you can use to guide yourself is this: Don&#8217;t do anything that makes your ex perceive you as desperate.</p>
<p> 
<p>&lt;a href=&#8221; http://www.squidoo.com/how_can_i_retrieve_my_ex_lover_back&#8221; target=&#8221;_blank&#8221;&gt;How to get my ex <a target="_blank" title="girlfriend" href=" http://togetbackex.com">girlfriend</a> back&lt;/a&gt;? Most relationships can be saved, no matter how hopeless the situation seems.</p>
<p> 
<p>Watch a video that shows you exactly what you must Never do, what you should do to get your ex back and why at <a target="_blank" href="http://www.makingupyourlove.info/">http://www.makingupyourlove.info</a></p>
<p> 
<p>You will also learn what to do if you have already done the things that should not be done.</p>
<p> allan lim usa<br />http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/can-i-get-my-ex-back-tips-for-getting-back-together-after-breaking-up-697705.html</p>
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		<title>My Ex Boyfriend Wants To Be Friends &#8211; Can I Get Him Back?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 07:33:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re sitting there wondering &#8220;My ex boyfriend wants to be friends&#8230; is there a way of winning him back?&#8221; you&#8217;re definitely not alone.  Guys can be very confusing at times, and what they say isn&#8217;t always exactly what they mean.  Sometimes, there are ways around the friendship role&#8230; paths that lead right back into [...]<p><a href="http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-boyfriend/my-ex-boyfriend-wants-to-be-friends-can-i-get-him-back/">My Ex Boyfriend Wants To Be Friends &#8211; Can I Get Him Back?</a> is a post from: <a href="	http://togetbackex.com/momu">To Get Back Ex</a></p>
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<p>If you&#8217;re sitting there wondering &#8220;My ex <a target="_blank" title="boyfriend" href=" http://togetbackex.com">boyfriend</a> wants to be friends&#8230; is there a way of winning him back?&#8221; you&#8217;re definitely not alone.  Guys can be very confusing at times, and what they say isn&#8217;t always exactly what they mean.  Sometimes, there are ways around the friendship role&#8230; paths that lead right back into your boyfriend&#8217;s arms again.  But other times, friendship with your ex can spell the end of the road &#8211; at least romantically.</p>
<p>You need to understand the basics of guy psychology.  When a man turns to a woman and says &#8220;I just want to be friends&#8221;, it can mean only one of three things:</p>
<p><strong>1)</strong> <u>He actually wants to break up with you</u>.  In this situation, a guy can&#8217;t bring himself to fully dump you, so he uses an offer of friendship to help break your fall.  It&#8217;s his way of being nice about the breakup, but it&#8217;s also a cowardly thing to do.  It can often make you think your boyfriend is sending you mixed signals, when he really just wants to move on.</p>
<p><strong>2)</strong> <u>He wants to date someone else</u>.  This scenario is the hardest one to recover from, immediately anyway, because your man might already have his sights set on another girl.  If this is the case, there are ways you can prevent the break up from happening (if it&#8217;s early enough after he asks to be friends with you) and methods you can use to get your boyfriend back even if he does begin dating again.  You need to act quickly though, being proactive and careful with every move you make if you still want your ex back.</p>
<p><strong>3) </strong> <u>He&#8217;s looking for change</u>.  In such a case, your now ex-boyfriend is bored or unhappy with the way things are, and wants to start fresh.  Telling you he wants to be friends is his way of keeping you hanging around while he decides if breaking up is what he really wants.  On his end, he can easily undo the friendship &#8211; especially if he knows you still love him.  This gives him the freedom to look in new directions but the comfort of having you back with the snap of his fingers.  This is an undesirable situation for you to be in, and there are some great ways out of it.  You can quickly make your ex need and want you again, if you know what to do first.</p>
<p>Getting your ex back after you&#8217;ve become friends with him is ten times harder than if you refused such an offer.  You need to know exactly what to do in this scenario, so you can avoid pushing your ex in the opposite direction.  Only by adopting a step-by-step plan for winning him back &#8211; and then sticking to it &#8211; can you greatly increase your chances of getting <a target="_blank" title="back together" href=" http://togetbackex.com">back together</a> again.</p>
<p> Anthony Malibu<br />http://www.articlesbase.com/friendship-articles/my-ex-boyfriend-wants-to-be-friends-can-i-get-him-back-1287945.html</p>
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		<title>Will Carly and Freddie ever get back together after &quot;I saved your life&quot; episode?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, I still watch Carly and i wanted to know if carly and freddie will ever get back together. So i was wondering if y&#8217;all out there knew anything that will give me some heads up on the up coming Carly shows and see if they do get back together! Well&#8230;they haven&#8217;t yet. I assume, [...]<p><a href="http://togetbackex.com/get-back-together/will-carly-and-freddie-ever-get-back-together-after-i-saved-your-life-episode/">Will Carly and Freddie ever get back together after &quot;I saved your life&quot; episode?</a> is a post from: <a href="	http://togetbackex.com/momu">To Get Back Ex</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I still watch Carly and i wanted to know if carly and freddie will ever get <a target="_blank" title="back together" href=" http://togetbackex.com">back together</a>. So i was wondering if y&#8217;all out there knew anything that will give me some heads up on the up coming Carly shows and see if they do get back together!<br />
<br />Well&#8230;they haven&#8217;t yet. I assume, by the end of the show (whenever that may be), they&#8217;ll get together for real. As we say online for those destined TV couples, they are end game. <img src='http://togetbackex.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>how to put back together a ambassador tcg5000c reel?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Mar 2010 11:11:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I dissembled my reel. The handle end to grease my gears and it came all apart. Now i cant get it back together again. I&#8217;m having trouble with the push button. Anyone know where i can find a step by step directions? Ain&#8217;t no &#34;step by step&#34; way ta&#8217; do it but ,with a lttle [...]<p><a href="http://togetbackex.com/get-back-together/how-to-put-back-together-a-ambassador-tcg5000c-reel/">how to put back together a ambassador tcg5000c reel?</a> is a post from: <a href="	http://togetbackex.com/momu">To Get Back Ex</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I dissembled my reel. The handle end to grease my gears and it came all apart. Now i cant get it <a target="_blank" title="back together" href=" http://togetbackex.com">back together</a> again. I&#8217;m having trouble with the push button. Anyone know where i can find a step by step directions?<br />
<br />Ain&#8217;t no &quot;step by step&quot; way ta&#8217; do it but ,with a lttle common sense these schematics should help out some;)&#8230; &lt; * { {{ &gt; &lt;</p>
<p>Scroll down page to Ambassador 5500C&#8217;s:</p>
<p>http://www.fishtheoutdoors.com/research/reel_schematics/index.php?dir=abu_garcia%2F</p>
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		<title>How should I get my ex back?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[We dated for just over two years. Things for the most part, were perfect. Towards the end, we started getting in little fights, and eventually they started to grow more and more into serious ones. Eventually we had the fight that ended it all. We gave it two months of trying to work things out [...]<p><a href="http://togetbackex.com/get-ex-back/how-should-i-get-my-ex-back-2/">How should I get my ex back?</a> is a post from: <a href="	http://togetbackex.com/momu">To Get Back Ex</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We dated for just over two years. Things for the most part, were perfect. Towards the end, we started getting in little fights, and eventually they started to grow more and more into serious ones. Eventually we had the fight that ended it all. We gave it two months of trying to work things out slowly, but she was never sure about her feelings about me. The other night we decided to stop talking. Shes the first girl i&#8217;ve ever loved and I want her back, and I know she wants me back, but shes just scared and tired of relationships at the moment. Should I give her space  for a month or so and then try to rekindle the spark? Any suggestions?<br />
<br />yeap id say your plans good<br />
give her space and then try working things out again<br />
if she still wants to get <a target="_blank" title="back together" href=" http://togetbackex.com">back together</a> with you then thats great, and if not then you have no choice but to move on. dont waste your time on someone who doesnt want you.</p>
<p>good luckk!</p>
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