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Me and my ex were together for a year and a half. We didn’t fight that often and were very good to each other. We now are broken up and when it first happened I did get mad and say things that I regret. I have apologized and have not really talked to her.

We work together a few times a week. When we interact it is always friendly and polite and sometimes flirtatious, though she says its just for show.
I am trying to get back together with her.

When she broke up with me she was under a lot of stress from school and work and mutual friend said it was a bad idea on her part and that I was the easiest thing to drop. I am willing to do anything I have to to win her back.

Please don’t tell me to move on. Its been 3 months she had a rebound that treated her like s*** that lasted for about 5 weeks and she has been talking to guys that treat her the same since then. But she she still talks to them even after they screwed up.

She recently said we could start talking again but i don’t know what to say or what to do to win her back. What should I do?

When my boyfriend and I broke up, the one thing I wanted him to do that would win him back, was to treat me like a friend.
Talk to her, and flirt with her, just like you did before you started dating. Bring up some of the inside jokes from your relationship that will make her miss all the memories you two had together. Wouldn’t you miss those memories if you were reminded of them?
A year and a half is a long time for a relationship, so congrats for making it that far.
I was reading this article in this magazine I got, and it said that 90% of break ups can be reversed, so I’m 90% positive you’ll be with your girl again, especially since she wants to talk
Good Luck!

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Me and my ex were together for a year and a half. We didn’t fight that often and were very good to each other. We now are broken up and when it first happened I did get mad and say things that I regret. I have apologized and have not really talked to her.
We work together once a week. When we interact it is always friendly and polite but later I hear that i annoyed her but can’t give a reason why. I have tried to ignore her but she initiates most of the conversations.
I am trying to get back together with her.
When she broke up with me she was under a lot of stress from school and work and mutual friend said it was a bad idea on her part and that I was the easiest thing to drop. I am willing to do anything I have to to win her back.
Please don’t tell me to move on. But what should I do. Its been 2 months she had a rebound that treated her like s*** that lasted for about 5 weeks and she gets upset when ever hes mentioned

I was in a similar situation except I broke up with my boyfriend because i was stressed out with school work and life in general. We hardly ever fought and i honestly loved him dearly. i still do. But i felt like it had to be done. it did relieve a lot of stress but every now and then when we make eye contact whenever we see each other around, i feel as if my heart sinks deeper. I dated him for a year and 2 months. it has been 7 months since and im over it, yet i still love him regardless.

how does this tie in to your question you’re probably asking? Well, you need to tell her how you feel and show her that you will not cause stress for her because she most definitely should still have feelings for you since you dated over a year and didnt break up on a bad note. Good luck!

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I really still care about him, we just decided to go our seperate ways because we were getting too serious and he basically pushed me away. We have a 7 year age difference, im 22 and hes 29. We sometimes talk, but I really want us to get back together. It’e been 4 months, and I know getting back together with exes is a bad idea, but I still really care about him. We still talk, but its usually me contacting him first. Any tips in winning him back.?

There really are some basics to getting a guy back. The most important are:

- Be strong. Don’t fall at his feet, don’t beg for him. That’s a sure way to lose his interest fast.

- Not too much contact. This gives him the idea that you are available to him. Often, available is not interesting.

With those rules in mind, you could start to invent a strategy to get him back.

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The first thing you need to do is assess the situation you are in and make sure that you truly want to save the marriage. You wife wants a divorce for a reason and that reason may or may not be known to you. If you do know the reason, think about whether it is something you can get passed or not. A lot of times people try and save their marriage ‘for the kids’ but this is a bad idea. The reason for that is that it does the children no good if the parents are constantly fighting. In order to save your marriage, you must truly want to be married to your wife and you must be able to look passed and get over the ‘reason’ why your wife wants a divorce.

If you have decided that you can forgive and get passed the reason you are ready to start saving your marriage. What you need to do first is to simply tell your wife that you are ready to save the marriage and that is your main goal. When it comes to divorce, most couples talk about lawyers and court. Instead of doing that, focus on saving the marriage. Tell your wife that she can concentrate on lawyers and court if she wants, but you will be concentrating on being the best husband you can be.

Marriage is not about finding the person you will love forever, marriage is about learning to love the person you chose. You have to show your wife that you will be an easy person to love. By doing simple things you can easily show her that you are or will learn to be a great husband. I’m not saying to just give in to all demands, but going the extra mile to make sure you are doing your part certainly helps.

You need to really sit back and think about what kind of husband you are. Do you need improvement? I can tell you that I have never met anyone who didn’t need improvement so don’t worry. This doesn’t mean you are a bad husband, actually it means just the opposite. Admitting that you need improvement and trying to improve makes you the ideal husband for most women. Show your wife that you are willing to do what it takes by working on what you need to work on. Buy a book, a course, or a video about marriage and how to be a good husband. This will show your wife you are serious and are willing to work for the marriage and your lives together.

Write a list and ask your wife to do the same. Sit down and write out all the things you hate about your wife. I stress the word ‘hate’ because these should be things that you cannot stand. Don’t write down ‘do the dishes more’, write down if she had an affair, is abusive, or anything else that will seriously damage your life and your marriage. Ask her to do the same. Simply say ‘I know you want a divorce but if you don’t mind can you please write down the things that are making you come to that decision so that I don’t make the same mistakes in the future.”

Ryan Travista
http://www.articlesbase.com/divorce-articles/when-your-wife-wants-a-divorce-and-you-dont-706325.html

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this is for boys… what would make you want to take your ex girlfriend back? My ex and i dated for over four months and i still really miss him sometimes. he was honestly the only one that made me feel good enough and feel like i was worth something. we had a really good relationship and i still care about him. i just want to know from a boy’s perspective what would make a boy want an ex girlfiriend back.
we broke up because he was going after a girl he had wanted for ages. but they got together and we stayed best friends and then she was a b***h to him and he came back to me twice but i dunno…. we just work together and he knows that. im not the type to be like baby i miss you and i want you back. good lord, i have pride ya know. i dunno maybe its a bad idea to think about us anymore. god im kind of pathetic ha.
and p.s. i have gotten hotter

move on. let me say that again, MOVE ON
do you want to be the crazy x gf??

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