How to get your ex boyfriend back? Pls help…?
We split a few months ago, were together for four years & were craaaaaaaazy in love.. i was 15 wen i met him and he was 18.
We didnt cheat on eachother or want anyone else, but for some personal reason i had to move far away and because i was trying to live my life here he thought i forgot about him and moved on which hurt him alot so now he is just cold and distant with me, acting like a whole other person. He still calls and texts and emails if i dont, which are very short just to see how i am, but when i respond he is short and cuts off again.
Please help, i really do love him and miss him. Talking to him and telling him how i feel does not work at all – He was so hurt that he has changed. But when i do actually not contact he seems nicer :S
Please help n tell me how to make him miss me and want me back
He still says we had something so special n amazin n he was so happy before i ”abandonned him”
I’ve been in a similar situation, it’ll just continue to be that way. If you’ve already told him that you still love & miss him, and that you want to get back together & it’s not doing anything to change the situation then I think you’re left with 2 choices. First one is to tell him staright up again that you love & miss him and that you want to get back together. Give him an ultimatum, Let him know that if he doesn’t want to try being together anymore that you’re moving on, either he gets over the fact that you moved away & forgives you or it will never work. Second if he doesn’t want to get back together it’s time for you to move on, cut him out of your life. I know it seems drastic but it’s the only way you will ever begin to get over him TRUST ME! No meeting up, phone calls, texts, emails… NOTHING! It’s the only way.
I hope that he is willing to give it another shot though, best wishes!
I’ve been in a similar situation, it’ll just continue to be that way. If you’ve already told him that you still love & miss him, and that you want to get back together & it’s not doing anything to change the situation then I think you’re left with 2 choices. First one is to tell him staright up again that you love & miss him and that you want to get back together. Give him an ultimatum, Let him know that if he doesn’t want to try being together anymore that you’re moving on, either he gets over the fact that you moved away & forgives you or it will never work. Second if he doesn’t want to get back together it’s time for you to move on, cut him out of your life. I know it seems drastic but it’s the only way you will ever begin to get over him TRUST ME! No meeting up, phone calls, texts, emails… NOTHING! It’s the only way.
I hope that he is willing to give it another shot though, best wishes!
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Hello
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back try following these steps:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of these negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you don’t want them..
2.Don’t annoy your ex boyfriend. Men just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously call, sms him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give your ex boyfriend time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it’s recommended to get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When looking good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
all the best
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