How Do I Get My Ex Back ?

We are now broken up for 2 months . Yeah , and I’m still not over him . Believe me , I’ve been trying . I told myself I was better without him and that i cud find another guy . I put myself out there again around a month and a half , and three guys asked me out . I said no to two of them and said maybe to one. I started having a thingg with that "maybe" one . buuut it didn’t click . He was perfect , but it just didn’t feel right . I missed my ex . Too much . How we ended was a weird one . We were a great couple . People at school were jealous and wished they had our relationship . One night , we were just fighting through text about how he was getting obsessed over baseball and how it was taking over his life . Some things were said that hurt a lot , and well … he broke up with me . The next morning before school ? He wanted me back . We agreed to wait a week so things could calm down in school . EVERYONE was bugging us . It was impossible . The whole week he would tell me how much he still loves me and I said it a few times back , too . I couldn’t lie to him . He broke up with me on a monday , so that friday , I was going to ask him out again . But literally before I could , he yelled at me about a rumor that I was flirting with this other guy and did some stuff . HECK NO! I told him that and he said sorry after we fought . Monday came . . . I asked him out . He was surprised actually . Tuesday came and then Wednesday , he said he didn’t think we should go out anymore . Said we should still be friends . We still texted . Goodness . . . a lot has happened since then . . . this girl he started liking , him saying my best friend was hot , him hearing that I was saying things about him and getting mad about it , him saying he wanted to go out in the future , him saying he still liked me a little , that he doesnt and he does , that im better off without him , that he told himself he could live without me and eventually he believed it , that he said we went as far as we could , that he got bored with the relationship , that he couldnt make me happy , that i should be with a guy that would make me happy . This was all spread out thruout the past 2 months . Not all at once after the breakup . Recently , I found out he still misses me sometimes . . . I dont know whut to do . How can I get him back ??? Do I play hard-to-get ? Please don’t give me some crap online about "The Magic Formula to Love" or something that’s just a scam . And please don’t tell me to move on and that there are other guys out there , because I’ve heard it all . I tried believing everything people told me , and nope . My heart still wants him . I tried convincing him that he was the only one… FAIL . I tried telling him I missed him… FAIL . I tried ignoring him for 2 weeks and he did text me . WHAT DO I DO ? PLEASE GIVE ME A PLAN

I’ve actually seen this a lot. I think you should stay friends with him to start with. Don’t pressure him about having a relationship AT ALL. He could just take advantage of those feelings and string you along. You need to become a little more independent. I promise it will help the relationship in the long run.

The first step to getting him back is making yourself happy. No one wants a desperate girl. If your happy he’s going to realize you don’t need him and it’ll take some of the pressure off him because he probably thinks you need him to make yourself happy. No one wants that responsibility. To be honest, it seems that he just feels pressured.

I know that’s easier said then done but you should try joining a club or getting closer to your friends (your single friends because the ones in relationships are only going to want to make you have a relationship)

If you really want him back, I’d stay away from ALL boys who could be potential future boyfriends because they will only cause issues between you and him. Plus, you could end up hurting on of the boys your talking to (and if it doesn’t work out with your ex, you could have just lost a great future boyfriend)

I hope that helps (: