How do i get back my ex girlfriend?
My Girlfrined broke up with me last week. She said it was because she needed a break and wanted to be single for a while. She did however say that when she had time to think that we could maybe get back together. At first i just gave her some space. But shes begun talking to this other guy, whom i know for a fact likes her. As to whether or not she likes him, i dont think she does, or i dotn think she wants to go out with him cause like she said she wants to be single for a little. Latly ive been talking to her a little, adn now it seems like she doesnt like me at all. We agreed to still be friends, but she seems to not even like me. I really want to get her back, anyone have any sugestions? honestly i dont think just waiting it out is a good idea casue theres this other guy??!
Start dating someone else so she could get jealous and beg to get back with you….but to be honest she needs her space because she lost interest in the relationship and wants to remain friends with you and she wants ti test the waters so at least if it does not work she has you to come back to because she knows you still have feeling for her
if she broke it off ur done
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maybe you should move on…
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Find someone new. Its sounds like thats what she is doing. Sorry
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tell her you want her back and if she doesnt want you move on sorry..good luck
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Move on and find someone else
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You need to just come out and ask her. say i need to know if we are going to get back together anytime soon. dont take idk or maybe because thats probably a no ask for a yes or no answer. you can tell her how you feel about her and it may help but you need to ask.
good luck
can you please help me out?
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okay, honestly, i hate it when people tell me this but i find it to be true.
if you love somthing let it go, if it loves you it will come back.
if she liked you at all she would have came back to you,
she will probably end up dating some other dude.
im sorry but it is more than likely what will happen
best of luck:)
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ok ma man heres what i told somone
YO HERES SOME HELP FROM A GUY WE THINK IF THE GUY COMES UP TO THE GIRL ITS COOL AND THEY GOT GUTS. hey if you want to start slow just say hi ever so often then go deeper and then tell her about your self and ask her about her but only ask if she asks first she’ll be with the flow of the people she hangs with so go talk to her and if the freinds tell you to f off just replie f u c k you thatll shut them up in .3 seconds hey take it from me and i am not dating yet so heres how you do it
1. say hi
2. ask about her
3. tell her about your self
4. be friends
5. tell her your feelings
6. tell her you want to be his girl friend
7. try and refrain from slapping her in the face
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Take this advice from a girl, and no this is hard but she probably got tired of the relationship, and I honestly don’t think she wants to get back in "the" relationship. Maybe she doesn’t have anything against you, but the reason why sshe dumped you was because she did not like the relationship and did not feel happy ): So I suggest maybe try and move on ):
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Start dating someone else so she could get jealous and beg to get back with you….but to be honest she needs her space because she lost interest in the relationship and wants to remain friends with you and she wants ti test the waters so at least if it does not work she has you to come back to because she knows you still have feeling for her
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hook up with her mom
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if you have no choice but to wait for her then thats ALL you can do is wait for her to make contact .if she hasnt done that yet then the sad realization is that she is done with you so if your tired of waiting then just move far away and start over
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TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Come to grips that she doesn’t see you the same way you see her. It’s fine. I know it is going to be tough, but let her go. It is a gradual but rather difficult process. Talk to other girls and play the field..after all, that’s what she is doing, is she not?
Peace and one love
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As much as i hate to say it. I really think she was trying not to hurt you as bad by saying she just needed some space. I think you need to try dating other people as well. I say that bc it will help you get over her faster or it will make her jealous if she really wants to make it work.
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to be honest with you… you should move on… she broke up with you, because she lost interest in you.. she doesn’t want to be single, she just want to flirt with other guys, or be with someone else and just broke it to you like that, because she didn’t want to really hurt yo feelings… sorry babe
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i know it for sure
Confidence is Key here… When you see her you need to put on your biggest act and say "hey! how are you, what’s going on? you need to appear *really* confident, and like you are happier than ever around her. Look your best, maybe flirt with another girl a little (not too much). She’ll see you in your best light, confident and happy. This will drive her crazy and hopefully begging to have you back.
good luck!
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absence makes the heart grow fonder – and it’s SO true!!
i’ve had it twice now where i’m pretty certain in my decision with ending it with a guy but if they don’t call/text me for just a few days i find myself begging for them back. Sound like an attention seeker?- i’m just being honest about how ALL girls feel – trust me !
however..about this other guy, she probably DOES like him if shes getting close to him fully aware that he likes her..and you showing jealousy gives her a REASON to never come back to you. she could be telling you you have a chance with her again just to keep you hooked , when really she doesnt want you back at all.
Us women eh?
Try not texting!! or calling or emailing ! its hard but it could SO pay off (i’m currently holding back from texting a guy – so we’ll do it together
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Prove to her that you are willing to die and do anything for her. A female likes that. If you have made any promises to her you need to fulfill those promises. Trust me i know. I went over to my girls this past weekend and we went to her sisters in frisco. Note my girl has a daughter. Okay. I took care of her and her daughter i folded clothes and everything. My girl knows im serious. Prove yourself to her. Trust me it WILL WORK.
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EXPERIENCE
Honestly sweetie. she wants to be single cause she wants to see other people
I did it to my bf from a previous relationship were we together for 8 years tho after we did get back together and now we are not together anymore.
I told him I need space after the 2nd year i was with him and i told i want to single but honestly I was interested in someone else at that time so I didnt want to hurt my bf at the time but i was confused too but then again i did hurt him cause he cried and he was never known to cry I was being selfish and had no emotion when i told him i want space.
We eventually got back together after my fling with this other guy. and we styed together for another 5 years but now we broke for good 3 years ago
If you are still talking to her just be careful she could be using you too. She is using you at her own conveineince not yours.
So honestly be patient and see what happens keep your self busy. Workout, go out with friends, work something positive things will get better
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I’m sorry to break it to you, but she told you that you two might get back together to soften the blow of her leaving you. Women do this thing… and they do it with the best of intentions… where they say things that make you feel better in the short term that aren’t actually true. They do this to spare your feelings. It’s not a lie out of malice. She thought it would make the breakup a little easier on you, but (most women don’t think this far into it) she didn’t think about how she’d have to deal with it later. She probably does like this guy (it certainly sounds like she does), and she might want a relationship with him. There is NOTHING you can do about this. If she does want to get back together with you, she’ll get in touch, but you NEED to be the one to let her make the first move. If you call her or bother her, she’ll get annoyed with you and push you away. So back off contacting her. If she gets into a thing with this guy, then that’s that. "Winning someone back" doesn’t usually work unless someone has left you for a specific reason (like alcohol abuse etc).
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Dump her … She just wanted time to see this other guy. If your girl friend wants a little time to them selfs an u know there is somebody waiting in the wings… she is goin to him. When she is done , or if things dont work out between them, she will come back to u. Is that what u want out of a girlfriend . I say dump her ass she had plenty time
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Hi,
You need to ask yourself why she broke up with you in the first place? It seems from what she has done, that there was another reason for her breaking up with you. It’s a hard thing to do when looking at yourself and trying to work out why the break up happened. You sound like a decent guy as you wanted to give her space, is it more that she really wanted break up. If you really like her, what does she really want? The guy she is seeing, does he know you? Maybe he is saying things to her about you? Or is she simply not ready to settle down with someone? There are allot of reasons why you can go from being in a relationship and being friends. The big thing here is not to push her. Woman don’t like it when a guy becomes pushy even if its in a nice way. Suggestion, just be friends with her and go out to a movie or dinner every now and then. Spend some of your spare time with her as friends and don’t ask her about the other guy. Sit back in the distance but BE a GOOD friend to her. Don’t pressure her. Try and switch off the affection side of things, that’s hard I know. But if you do this you are showing not only respect for her but that you care about her as a friend. In time she will realise how good you really are and if she doesn’t then its just not meant to be. On the flip side, maybe you can also see other people and just make new friends and see what happens. Remember quality friendship is better the quantity friendship.Better to have 1 or 2 good friends then 10 who don’t really care about you or your hopes and dreams. Hope this helps. If you want to ask me anything else pls do.
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