how can i get my ex back?
I broke up with my ex about a month ago. I just needed a break to deal with some things that i was going through. I have suggested hanging out, but he’s really hesitant towards it. I know i’ve hurt him alot, but how could i get him back?
It’s not that he didn’t want to be around when i was going through things, he actaully really wanted to help me but i didn’t want him to be a part of it. :/
If you’ve really hurt him, than best of luck to you when it comes to getting him back. If he has any self respect and pride he won’t return. Then there’s the love factor. I don’t know how close you two were, but if you TRULY feel as if you made a mistake and that you do love him, I’d write a very HONEST letter telling him everything that was on your mind then and now. Hand write the letter b/c it’s more personal and don’t call him. The letter will give him time to think without the ‘in-your-face’ approach. Give him time and space to decide.
ok this is what i did with mine. I just was my self around him and acted crazy and everything and on the bus we sat together and he asked me out….What i do is i never say yes ill be like ummmm im not sure and then wait 10 seconds then say sure. It always worls for me and i hope it works for you good luckBD
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Well if he is your ex, there is probably a good reason for him to be your EX. And if you couldn’t have him around to help you deal with some "things", then he isn’t worth having around. Someone who loves you should be there for you through anything!
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lets hope its not too late,just ask him back if he says no then you know he doesnt want you back,be striaght.
its either meant to be or not,
otherwise you can begin a new life together or look for another person,but a month is too long for a break.lets hope he comes back to you
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If you’ve really hurt him, than best of luck to you when it comes to getting him back. If he has any self respect and pride he won’t return. Then there’s the love factor. I don’t know how close you two were, but if you TRULY feel as if you made a mistake and that you do love him, I’d write a very HONEST letter telling him everything that was on your mind then and now. Hand write the letter b/c it’s more personal and don’t call him. The letter will give him time to think without the ‘in-your-face’ approach. Give him time and space to decide.
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Really a partner should be there for you when you are having a difficult time. That is what relationships are all about. Its understanding he is hesitant becaus he may feel that if you through another patch then you may push him away again.
I am going through something similar, but she hasnt made any contact to come back to me, and I know even though I may want her, I would be hesitant because of the possibility of going through the same thing again.
I dont know how long you have been apart, but dont pester him to get back with you, although it would be good for you to let him know your feelings, and that you are sorry for pushing him aside.
If he is willing to chat, then great, if he is reluctant, just offer to be a friend maybe, but you have to know that it does not mean he will come back to you.
He will care about you, even after what iv gone through…feelings dont just dissapear no matter what he may say. Stick in there. only time will tell.
If you get another chance, then make the most of it and never let him go awain because if you do, he will never come back. I really hope it works out for you. Its a difficult thing to go through.
best of luck
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