Wednesday, May 23rd, 2012

trying to get my ex back..?

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ok so my ex gf and i have been broken up ever since february and like we really loved each other. i wanted to get her back at that time and she said she didnt feel the same way. After about 2 months later she gets someone new, and everyone see’s that she has clearly made a mistake.

The guy whom she is with is believed to be a player & she knows it, so one day we are texting each other playing a silly question game and emotions start to come into part when some hot questions start to come.

So she says how i am a better boyfriend than him and how she thinks of me a lot, and she doesnt want to call me because she cant trust herself and how she might flirt she also said she loved me but not him & that i was her best and how she didnt want to break up w. me

So ever since that day we have lately been talking a lot like everyday, we text each other a lot & call now, also today we webcamed(she asked me to do) and she was staring at me a lot and she felt emotions.

so my thing is i love this girl, and she said she loved me too, but she still has the other guy. Her family loves me and so does her friends but to him they dislike. she said how she was considering marrying me and doing more w. me than w. him. Im trying to get her back, i want to know how to persuade her that she can be happier w. me and to go back out w. me without messing up or anything. please help…we’re 17.

She needs to make a decision into whether she wants you or not, as much as you want to be there for her, you are her emotional tampon, you need to get some balls and let her know once and for , that you want to make it work with her, but before you do this you need to know that whatever made the relationship break that you both need to be able to work on these issues .
No second time with someone is the same as the first so you need to fix the cracks so the relationship becomes bigger and better than the last.

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3 Responses to “trying to get my ex back..?”
  1. Marissa Naka says:

    okay, well i pretty much know how you feel. and having a break up like that is really hard.
    you just need to be a gentleman.
    give her endless amounts of compliments
    tell her how much you love her
    tell her you’ll never give up on her
    let her know that you are dedicated to her and you’ll always be there for her
    you will never leave her side
    the more you guys talk the more she’ll fall for you.
    but it may take some time
    show her how much better you are for her
    show her how much of a jerk her bf is
    show her that you can be so much better and you have more to offer her
    but what made you guys break up anyways if she loves you,
    and you love her?
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  2. Jacko says:

    You need to find out why you broke up in the first place.
    Something must have been wrong. That is what needs fixing. Unless this IS fixed, it will just go wrong again.
    Talk to her about it (far better than texting)
    Tell her that she needs to decide whether she wants him, or YOU.
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  3. Leon G says:

    She needs to make a decision into whether she wants you or not, as much as you want to be there for her, you are her emotional tampon, you need to get some balls and let her know once and for , that you want to make it work with her, but before you do this you need to know that whatever made the relationship break that you both need to be able to work on these issues .
    No second time with someone is the same as the first so you need to fix the cracks so the relationship becomes bigger and better than the last.
    References :
    Experience

    If you need any more assistance. E mail

    Dbrown8456@aol.com

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