How to get an ex back?
It’s been a month… i’m seeing him in a week when we get back to college. Everyone told me the "No Contact" rule.. I broke it. I skyped him a few days after a breakup to get some answers. He said we could possibly try to work things out in september. I then contacted him a week later, and he got annoyed that I wasnt trying to move on,said hurtful things to me(i think to try to get me to move on) and said there was no possibility and wouldnt give me any answers!! He’s trying to move on. going out with friends and girls. I know people resort to this to move on. and I worry he completly forgot about me and doesnt miss me at all.. So. I havent contacted him in a week or so. Im doing the no contact now..
Is it to late to win him back??? what are the next steps I need to takee??? And any ideas on what to say to him when i see him!!!!!??? I need adice! Thanks!
I am trying to move on. however. I know what we had together, the connection and chemistry we had.. The long distance was hard and i havent seen him for 2 months at this point. The fighting got bad. but i relize alot that went wrong was my mistakes. I learned those and had alot of time to think about them. I wouldnt make the same mistakes again. and want to prove this to him. he was my bestfriend. I cant imagine him not in my life. .
He will be coming to my apartment on the second of september. What do I say at this point when i see him’?
he agreed to come on the second only to give me closure and say goodbye… I do not want this to be goodbye…
Hit the gym, get your hair done, and put on some sexy ass clothes, and skype him again and tell him "you agree with his decison" and that you "hope you can remain friends" 
Then he WILL want your ass back a week or two later when you’re not calling or texting him.. and he knows how bangin your lookin!
buy a gift , write a note, give em what they want ?
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ask him out
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Just look as good as you can and see if he comes to you. Do not approach him, do not contact him, do not date all the guys in your class. Do not stare at him or even talk about him. If he does not come to you or even look at you then he isn’t interested. Don’t embarrass yourself x if he speaks to you answer him, be nice but not over the top.
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Unfortunately he appears to be giving you very strong messages that he does not want you as a girlfriend and he is moving on with his life. You really need to do the same; it’s no fun loving someone who doesn’t love you back! When you see him just say ‘hello, how are you’. let him answer and then walk away. There really is nothing you can do to make him come back to you – at best you could only be friends. It might not be the advise you want – but it’s honest advise and is based on experience.
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move on. its only going to be bad for you if you keep this up. hes going to treat you like shit, and only use you for sex, which who knows you might give it up just to keep him around. its not worth it, find someone who will appreciate you. you owe yourself better.
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i would say just give it a little time. if you run into him, then let him acknowledge you first. don’t go around looking for him. give it about another month (if nothing happens in the meantime) before trying to get back together with him. and actually try to move on, start hanging out with friends. go to clubs, parties, whatnot. if you still want him back in a month, and only after you have seriously tried to get over him, then try to get him back.
as to what you say next time you see him, don’t just start up a conversation with "omg baby i want you back… i need you … i miss you… " no that wouldn’t ever work. and that just makes you seem desperate. if you run into him then just take it easy, for example "hey, whats up?" not to much, and just try to see what he’s been up to. if he doesn’t tell you much, then just make up some excuse about meeting up with friends somewhere or whatnot. but if he starts telling you every little thing he’s done since you last talked, then he deffinately wants you back. read his body language too. that always helps.
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Stop acting so desperate and needy. He has moved on I guarantee that! Otherwise he would have been pleased to hear from you.
Quit embarrassing yourself with him.> Move on.
You might want to be a couple but he doesn’t. Remember it takes two to make it work.
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Hit the gym, get your hair done, and put on some sexy ass clothes, and skype him again and tell him "you agree with his decison" and that you "hope you can remain friends"
Then he WILL want your ass back a week or two later when you’re not calling or texting him.. and he knows how bangin your lookin!
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Experience
You sound a lot like me right now. I can’t sleep because I can’t stop having dreams about my ex. I didn’t realize how much I loved him until I hurt him so bad he won’t talk to me anymore. Heartbreak sucks, I know. You feel alone and you feel like this pain is smothering you. I kept trying to tell myself he still loved me so I would get him back. I know now that he isn’t coming back. Sometimes you just have to let them go no matter how much it hurts, because you will hurt more thinking about it all the time. If it was meant to be, you would still be together.
Although, I don’t know all the little details and feelings and connections. He might still want you back, you have to objectively judge the situation. Is there really a chance of you two getting back together? Also remember that guys aren’t like girls, they’re simpler. When he says he only wants to say good bye, that might actually be all he wants. Good Luck Sister!
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Honey – relationships are like mirrors – once they’re broken, don’t hurt yourself trying to put them back together.
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Best of luck anyway. x