How do you win back an ex-bf who dumped you for bad timing?
Say you went out with a guy for like, 2 months. Even though it’s a short relationship, you two seem to like each other a whole lot. Things started to get rocky when his unemployment was brewing financial trouble in his life and he gets insecure over the fact that he couldn’t drive you around in his car (his car breaks down) anymore. So he decides to dump you, to your surprise.
How do you win an ex back when the break up isn’t about abuse, cheating or incompatibility, but basically "bad timing"?
He must feel real bad that he can’t afford to date. Keep in touch and let him know that you still want to be friends. Seeing you said that you "seem to like each other a whole lot" you can still do things together that are free, like going to the park or for a walk. Maybe he’s depressed and needs a friend to talk to. His life will straighten out and he’ll be back to his old self again!
you just have to wait until it isn’t bad timing. people have things going on in their lives that have nothing to do with the person they are dating. sometimes they get bad enough to cause problems. at least he realized it and said something before it got worse. contact him and tell him that when he gets things worked out that you would like to try again.
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sure.. i got back with my ex from 3 years ago… ex’s usually know each other, is better, is easier..
go for it.. try your relationship again with him
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He may have said that it was about his job or his car but who knows why he really ended things. Maybe he used that as an excuse. Maybe he met someone else, maybe he doesnt wanna date anyone right now or maybe he is just isnt that into you! Now if you go and ask him back out after he already dumped you, its going to look desperate and strange. He is gunna wonder why a girl would be so lonely that she had to ask the same guy out again after he dumped you. He will either run away from u or if he does agree to get back together its just because he thinks ur so vulnerable that he can talk u into anything. As i always say do not go after a guy, let him go after you!
Especially sense he already broke up with you!!! It is his time to take charge and if he wants you back, he will ask you back. Obviously it is still "Bad timing" for him or else he would be knocking on ur door (or calling u, or texting, or facebooking) to get back together. Let it go, and see what happens.
Hope it helps, i know its hard but u just gotta let it go.
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My ex wanted to get back together with me after i had broke up with him. I thought it was weird and creepy since i was the one who had left him.
He must feel real bad that he can’t afford to date. Keep in touch and let him know that you still want to be friends. Seeing you said that you "seem to like each other a whole lot" you can still do things together that are free, like going to the park or for a walk. Maybe he’s depressed and needs a friend to talk to. His life will straighten out and he’ll be back to his old self again!
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