How do I get my ex back when she just wants to be friends?
My ex just recentky broke up with me saying it hasnt been the same and she just wants to be good friends and still wants me in her life. I still have strong feelings for her and I want her back. Is this possible and what do I do??
okay look, i know you’re not going to like this answer, but i see a lot of guys make this mistake. when a girl says she just wants to be friends, then BELIEVE her. if you guys really used to go out, she probably thinks you’re boring (this is why i broke up with 2 of my bfs, no offense!), so you need to show her that you’re a lot of fun, and when you guys hang out (don’t get too clingy, show her that you have a bunch of friends), make sure that you’re both having fun, but then tell her that you have something else to go to so she’ll think you’re busy. also, when you’re with her, LOOK GOOD. if you get the vibe that she likes you again, then yay for you. but there’s nothing you can do until then until then, so be patient, she’ll come around!!
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no not really it is not really possible to get bak with her unless she falls in love with u again
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I am sorry, I don’t think she will take you back. You shouldn’t torture yourself by hanging around her either.
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If she says she wants to be friends, it means she wants to move on but have you to fall back on. She’s over you, and if she says otherwise, she just wants to drag you along. Don’t fall for it. It will be very hard, but the most you can do is try to get over it a little at a time.
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Give it up it is over, just move on if she really wants to go back she will come back to you do not pursue her it could make it alot worse.
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you can still be friends but you have to becompletely over her first and that means not seeing speaking to her for ages
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Remind her of all your good times together, and tell her how much you care about her…make her feel special and be that same guy she fell in love with the first time
good luck!
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just tell her how u feel and keep trying never back down im a girl so i no!
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never give up! i ahve a boyfriend and i never give up so u should do the same thing!
You have to try to move on…..it may be easier to discontinue the friendship until you get over her.
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CUT OFF ALL CONTACT WITH HER!!!!
She wants to be friends to keep you hanging on and see you acting like a lost puppy.
The best thing is to end all contact with her,that will make it easier to get over her. Then man up and move on to the next beautiful baby and NEVER take her back no matter how much she may eventually beg. Other girls will see that you give no second chances and will think twice.
But there are WAAAAAYYYY too many beautiful babies out there to be trippin over one simple trick.
EDIT: the girls telling you to "keep trying" and "make her feel special" simply want guys to be begging them like puppies after the leave and keep you on the "back burner". They like playing "dump you but beg me" game.
DO NOT listen to these game players and DO NOT fall for that BS.
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It is possible, just be like you used to be and be everything she wants you to be i guarantee if you do this right, she WILL fall in love with you again, don’t be too suggestive, act like a friend but still show her that you really care about her, and do nice little sweet things for her….hope this helps
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No, you should know by now that girls are very stubborn about such things. All you can do is go with it. She won’t go out with you unless she likes/loves you. So you may as well just be friends and find someone else.
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dude,good luck!!! im still in love with my ex when i thought i was over him but im not!!! we’re friends and all but we’re not as close as we used to be thats BEFORE we started dateing
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It is possible.She still loves you because if you broke up recently feeling don’t die that fast unless you never had them in the first place.
Don’t be all up in her face asking her to get back with you and showing your vulnerability because on instinct she might just take advantage of that.
She still likes you but she likes the part of you that she didn’t break up with.
Just be there for her as a friend.When she needs a shoulder to cry on etc etc.Sooner or Later she will begin to miss you on a boyfriend level and question why she even dumped you in the first place.
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Its not a good thing to try and make her come back to you. but if you like her a lot then just casually flirt and be really respectful and romantic and she might just end up having feelings for you again. hope this helps
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If you agree to be friends just to stay close to her, then she won’t have any respect for you. And you’ll lose respect for yourself.
Don’t accept that ‘I want to be friends’ thing, man. You’re not a little puppy.
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well it is possibly then you must respect her space right now and give her time cause if you don’t she will push you farther but i think you should move on why let her control you ! you have a life live it i would say get over her and move on with your life cause your just going to her your self if she doesn’t come running back to you and finds someone else and going to be very painful cause your going to be waiting for her to came around and she might not she might like the feeling to be single and might even be looking for some else i know that sucks but while let her win go have fun your self
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okay look, i know you’re not going to like this answer, but i see a lot of guys make this mistake. when a girl says she just wants to be friends, then BELIEVE her. if you guys really used to go out, she probably thinks you’re boring (this is why i broke up with 2 of my bfs, no offense!), so you need to show her that you’re a lot of fun, and when you guys hang out (don’t get too clingy, show her that you have a bunch of friends), make sure that you’re both having fun, but then tell her that you have something else to go to so she’ll think you’re busy. also, when you’re with her, LOOK GOOD. if you get the vibe that she likes you again, then yay for you. but there’s nothing you can do until then until then, so be patient, she’ll come around!!
if you have time, can you answer mine??
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak2hBOxIn.Kn9zyFfwXFY2fsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100523132049AAatSGG
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