How do I get my ex back?

My ex and I have been broken up for about a month. A week after breaking up with me, he calls me and plans a "date". The date didnt fall through as planned. He did tell me he still likes me but is still confused. That ends up confusing me. He still texts me and we talk on the phone occassionally. I try to ignore him, but its so hard. I feel if I act as a friend then maybe he will see that i have changed and will want me back. Hes really nice to me but I cant figure out if he wants me back. What should i do? Hang out with him to prove that I’m a different and improved person? What can I do to win him over? I feel like it maybe possible to do.

If things didnt work out the first time why do you want him back? He’s confused, let him be without out you. He’s just going to keep planning dates and then flake out on you. Move on and enjoy life. Dont let him hold you up from your happiness.