Thursday, February 9th, 2012

Does being a good friend work to get your ex back?

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I’m just curious to know if anybody has had any experience with this? We broke up but we are still good friends. Would I have any hope to get back together with her?

No you can’t make someone like you

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14 Responses to “Does being a good friend work to get your ex back?”
  1. Broken. says:

    No you can’t make someone like you
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  2. NotWorthAName says:

    Oh, believe me. I wish it did. But sometimes, friendly love just never gets that far.
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  3. phatcatmama says:

    Yes.
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  4. Jen J says:

    ya if youre nice to her, she just wants to be treated good
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  5. Cal says:

    Depends… some people will realize what you’re doing and get angry. On the other hand it did work for me once.
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  6. . says:

    Being a good friend, I doubt it does; I guess it depends
    on how things ended. Don’t try to get back with them
    though, trust me I’ve been trough it.
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  7. Meii says:

    No. It actually causes more drama and tension.
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  8. Math_Idiot... says:

    u shouldn’t force love, but if she still likes u, then do it
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  9. Tattoosformyvalentine. says:

    You just gotta be nice to her sincerely and not make any moves. If she realises what shes been missing, good for you guys. If not, just leave her alone.
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  10. Willow says:

    Hmm… Don’t overdo anything. Just be cool, and be her friend. Let her make the decision.
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  11. KellyAnna xOx says:

    No they can’t be friends
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  12. kyle_shamblin says:

    if that were true, id be happy right now and not on the breaks of suicide.
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  13. chispitas_michoacan_818 says:

    i meet my ex in 2006 and we were going out like for 1 year and it was girl/boyfriend 2006-2007. and another 1 year . like friends with benefits and it work ok 2007 it was . and in 2008 there was a time when we stop talking and that only took like 2 months we will see each other and stuff but no talk. it was ok for me like that cause we were still friends. weird huh . and it was because he had a girl and i had a boy. and then we started talking again we cant stop talking for ever thats just us. and now we are still friends and i have a boy and he has no one. and we talk and hes like i like you still . but iam waiting for you to lose him . and i told him i dont like you anymore just like a friend . and hes like you like me i know it.and we laugh i guess in a way i do. but only time will tell on that. and he said that he still likes me because we are still friends after all that happend. so yeah keep in touch with him and talk to him and like wat happend to me . but i said no. you will say yes. to go out with him again. good luck.
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  14. Tim G says:

    If your ex is showing you a little bit of interest, or seems more interested in going out and spending time with you than before, or if you notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, then it’s okay to be a little hopeful but you need to avoid jumping the gun. Are you asking yourself "does my ex want to get back with me"?

    These are definitely very common signs that your ex is interested in getting you back. But even if you want to get back with your ex, you should not simply jump into things. The best way to play things is to play hard to get (in moderation), which is probably what your ex will best respond to anyway. If you simply jump into things full force, then you may find your ex pushing you back again. In fact, if your ex is giving indications that he or she wants you back, then the odds are, it was you playing hard to get that led to the renewed interest in the first place.

    Usually when you break up with your ex, or he or she breaks up with you, there is a natural level of missing one another, or longing to get back together. This is especially true following a relationship of a year or longer. Your ex is probably going to miss you no matter what, because of how many memories were shared together during this period of time. But there are other emotions that come into play including past regrets. If you are wondering "does my ex want to get back with me" the odds are that your ex may be thinking the same thing for the same reasons.

    Sometimes when an ex shows interest again following a break up however, it is only a game. They may see that you love them, and they may simply be trying to get attention, without actually intending to get you back. So, unless your ex really seems genuinely interested in spending time with you, they may just be passing the time because they have no other prospects on the horizon. And worst of all they may see this as away to get revenge for some perceived wrong. This is why it is important not to jump the gun, and why you should focus on reading into the situation before you act on it.

    This is common, and a lot of people find themselves wondering "does my ex want to get back with me?", but the truth is, its better to get a feel for the situation before you act. In reality, if your ex does want to get back with you, playing hard to get (in moderation) is the best scenario because it will prevent you from getting hurt if your ex is not really serious about getting back with you.
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