(Girls) Does she want to get back together?
Hey, I’ve been dating this girl for 3 years. She left me a couple of months ago because she said she needed a "clean break" and if we were meant to be together then it would eventually happen, but she "can’t be in a relationship right now" i didn’t get any other explanation besides that.
Since then we’ve hung out, she says she loves me but is "trying to figure it all out." She doesn’t want to date anyone else, and would be upset if i dated someone else. We’ve spent a few nights together too. We are best friends and there’s defiantly chemistry there but she doesn’t want to be more for some reason. Today i went in for a kiss and we were making out for a while but then she said it’s "too soon." But she continued to kiss me for a while longer. And when i left she gave me a tap on the butt…She said we’re heading in a good direction and she can see something happening in the near future
So idk? Does she want to get back together? Is the just having fun? I love her and want to get back together but it’s sorta frustrating to be waiting for it, especially with all the fun we’ve been having, it reminds me of how much i miss being with her…
BTW we’re both 20 and in college
I think she wants to get back together. She just needs to feel more comfortable about it. She does not want to take it too far if she’s just going to pull out of the situation. She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or her own. She needs more confidence in the situation to know that this is what she is going to invest her time in. Just keep on doing what your doing, but don’t push it. The next time you make love, she will know if she wants to keep you or not.
She’s trying to figure her life out. Sounds like she’s using you as a make-out buddy in the mean time.
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i think she wants to, but she’s trying to figure stuff out. if she is really important to you, let her figure everything out. but i would still be flirty with her so she knows that you still want to be with her
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She’s confused right now and you have to learn to be patient but I do think she wants to get back together all in good time.
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not sure ..
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It seems like she does want to get back together, just not yet. She’s taking baby steps, and hopes for you to bare with her. She seems to really like you, though
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DUde, if you have been dating her for 3 years and the only explanation she gave was that she needed a "clean break" then it shows how self-centered she is. When you’re with someone for that long, they owe you an explanation.
It’s not fair of her to kiss you and stuff, knowing that you still have deep feelings for her. I know there’s nothing I could tell you because when a guy loves a girl, he will stay persistent and avoid the truth at all costs.
But good luck with letting her completely run things. Nothing like letting one person in the relationship dictate the terms 100%. You know the smart move is to leave and start dating others. I would bet any amount of money that you will inevitably be faced with a situation where at some point in the future, she will officially tell you that she just wants to be friends and that’s it.
But I hope I’m wrong. I’ve been hurt by girls like that, so I just don’t want you to get your hopes up man.
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Yeah, it sounds like she’s still interested..
Don’t rush her, cause that might think twice about getting back with you.
At least be happy she still wants to be with you.
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I think she wants to get back together. She just needs to feel more comfortable about it. She does not want to take it too far if she’s just going to pull out of the situation. She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or her own. She needs more confidence in the situation to know that this is what she is going to invest her time in. Just keep on doing what your doing, but don’t push it. The next time you make love, she will know if she wants to keep you or not.
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she just wants a break she still likes you give her some time!
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It’s kinda hard to predict her actions but for me it more seems that she is just having fun with you and not really into a deep and serious relationship.
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