Getting My Ex Back – I Want to Get Back Together With My Ex Fast
Getting my Ex Back – I Want to Get Back Together With My Ex Fast
Perhaps you have already broken up with your ex. Yet, you just can’t forget your ex. You still love your ex very much and is still thinking of him or her very frequently. Naturally, you really want to get your ex back as soon as possible. So, how can you do that?
Well, personally, I understand that you really have this desire to win your ex back fast. However, it is also good to know that sometimes more haste means less speed. This is especially true if you have just gone through a break up.
If you have just broken up with your ex for only a few days, it will be best not to contact your ex for the time being. Perhaps, one month will be a very good period of time. Only contact your ex after this one month period.
You may wonder why you should avoid seeing your ex for the first month after your break up.
Well, there are some good reasons. But perhaps the most important one is to prevent yourself from making mistakes. If you have just broken up, this is the period of time when you are most emotionally vulnerable.
At this point of time, it is very easy to say or do the wrong things. You don’t want to do that as it will make it harder to win back your ex.
And when I say try not to contact your ex, it also refers to calling your ex. Not only should you not meet your ex face to face, you shouldn’t even call your ex.
The reason is because your ex may not even want to pick up the phone. If that happens, you may start to panic and start calling your ex over and over again. This is certainly what you must avoid. In fact, calling ex over and over again is a mistake that many men and women tend to make.
It is a mistake because your ex will perceive you as someone who is desperate. You do not want your ex to have this kind of perception. This will make It harder for you to win your ex back.
By cutting off all contacts for the time being, you minimize the chances of these mistakes being made.
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Help, might be getting back together with my ex? Not sure though?
Ok me and the ex have been split up about 5 months, im 23 shes almost 23 as well. Shes been dating these different guys trying to find happiness again but shes having so much bad luck, while me im just having fun and living life not really looking for a relationship. Well 2 weeks ago we were texting and talking about how we both miss what we once had (we were engaged) stupidity and immaturity led us to breaking up. Anyway, she told me not to put all my faith into her cuz she kinda has someone and doesnt want to do him wrong but on the other hand I KNOW they are constantly having probs and it is most likely not going to work out. Well I believe she is wanting me to give in and message her, text her and let her know im still here and she has her backup plan but all my friends say to not give in and let her see that I CAN live without her and eventually it will eat her up and she will want to come that much faster back to me. So for now, I am playing the waiting game but not letting her know im dyin to text her or call and tell her how I feel. If I do, that will just show her im giving in and still here, meaning she has that much more time to play games with me. I love the girl so much, and id do anything for her back but I just hafta do this for now. U can tell me I dont deserve this, but what I had with her was amazing and I simply cannot stop thinking bout her. Seems like we both feel the same way but we are afraid or something. So do I just set back and let her see that im ok, and im doing fine without her? She doesnt know, that I know the guy she is dating. He is in the military and is gone alllll the time. Even after what we went thru, she still wants to be friends and wants to hang out with me sometime. Should I keep goin? Letting her come to me? Thanks
Go to her, but do not do ANYTHING with her until she dumps her boyfriend. If she doesn’t dump him, then you’ll have to deal with being rejected. At least you’ll know how she really feels. You do not want her feeling like she can’t trust you. Do it with them, you’ll do it to them. That sort of thing. It’s in your ball park. Really think it through and try to consider only what you think is right.
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You are just being hopeful she feels the same way about you. If she did, she wouldn’t be with the military guy. She’s just being nice to you. Quit waiting around for her. The way you’re acting you’re just going to end up embarassing yourself and possibly getting shot by Army boy. Go out and have some fun with other ladies.
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tough situation.
i always say that the most f*cked up relationships are ones where the couple doesn’t communicate. if you love her, let her know. but don’t be obsessive with her, trying to constantly go after her. that can just turn her off. it’s a fine calibration between letting you know how you feel and smothering her. and don’t have her cheat on the guy with you; have her break up first. sounds a little dick, but if she loves you and cares about the other guy AT ALL, that’s what should be done. plus, that just proves she’s a good person if she’s willing to talk to the guy.
most of all, though, even though i gave you advice, the only REALLY good advice i can say is talk to her. don’t necessarily take a play by play from other people, but rather, communicate and do what YOU feel is best.
a bit of a contradicting response, but i hope it helps.
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just dont rush back into things go wit the flow..sounds like u can u a laugh here u go
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