Getting Back With an Ex Girlfriend – Don’t Rush Into This!
If you are thinking of getting back with an ex girlfriend, its important that you don’t rush. This is a big step and you have to take things nice and slow. For starters, think about the reason that you broke up. How was your relationship with her at that time? Probably not too good, I would imagine. So it’s important that you don’t get back with an ex girlfriend, if its just going to cause the same misery that caused the breakup in the first place. That would just be really stupid wouldn’t it?
Instead, think about what drew you to her in the first place? The beginning is almost always the best part. Because it doesn’t really seem like work, does it? It’s almost always fun and games, because you are still getting to know each other. You always make time to be with each other. Later on, it doesn’t feel like that. It feels like you really have to struggle to make this relationship work.
Sit and down and think about the difference between those early stages of your relationship and contrast that to the end of the relationship. Who changed? What changed?
Look at yourself in the mirror! Don’t place all the blame on her, irregardless of the reason why the breakup took place. After you have sat down, and really thought this threw, you should have somewhat of a better idea if you would like to get back together with your ex-girlfriend. The important thing is to really dig deep and see if the relationship is even worth saving. If all signs point to yes, then its time to proceed.
Elaine Hess
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Does my ex girlfriend want me back?
My girlfriend of 9 months broke up with me because she said she didn’t feel the same. We live about 2.5 hours away from each other. I’ve been doing a lot of research and have found out that the best thing to do is give her space and don’t contact her and stay strong, positive, and not show her that I am desperate. This has been the hardest thing to do, but after a week she started texting me again, nothing about getting back together but making small talk. The first text she sent me said, "I hope you don’t hate me." In my response text messages I’m not bringing up anything about the relationship and just keeping the conversation simple.
Then about a week later she sent me an email asking me to help with with some school work that said:
Hey
I hope everything is going well for you, we haven’t talked in a few days.
Can you help me get a graph out of a PDF file
I need Figure 3 on page 656, figure 4 and figure 6 on page 657.
Thanks you soooo much I don’t know what I would do with out you!!!
Always,
ME
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What should I take from this? Does she still have feelings for me? I do still have feelings and want her back, but I don’t want to rush into things too quickly and then blow my chances. What should I do next to help me getting her back? Or is there no hope at all?
Quit Dreamin Playa
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She’s basically asking you to do her homework. I don’t think it sounds like she wants you back, rather she knows you’d do anything for her and she’s using you to do school work. Keep playing hard to get. It’s not like she’s asking you to hang out or anything. I actually think you should tell her no, you can’t help her with her work.
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tell her that if she’s broken up with you, she should stop playing with your heart and stop asking for your attention. if she wants to be friends, then be friends but stop flirting!
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There is always HOPE!! I would answer back nicely and be like ( If we haven’t talked in forever, then just free free to text me
) it worked for me so it will work for you 
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