anyone that has cheated or has been cheated on but got back together with the person?
my bf and i have been together for 5years yesterday during our much needed heart to heart we both confessed that we have cheated on eachother ( both kissed other people) as of right now we are broken up
what did it take for you to get back with the person???? what are some tips/advice you could give me
You absolutely can work things out! Me and my husband got married young. I was 18, he was 20. In our 5th year of marriage we were really having problems and I ended up cheating on my husband. He forgave me and we made it work for a little while until he ended up cheating on me about 4 months later. We seperated after that for a few months. It was very difficult and I think that time apart made us both realize how much we really did love eachother and miss the other. And how much we took eachother for granted. Eventually after you could say "dating again" we both grew back in love together and are happier then ever! That was 3 years ago and we’re still going strong. We just celebrated out 10th anniversary. So don’t give up on your relationship just because mistakes were made. If you love eachother then it can always be saved! Hope this helped you a little 
if you both cheated on each other, then that means you were both lying to each other, and didn’t really care about each other…
why would you want to get this relationship back? It was all based on lying, cheating and not caring about each other…that is not a relationship.
I would say let him go, get some therapy, move on, hang out with friends, have fun, focus on yourself and live your life, think about your future…you’ll feel soooo much better about yourself, and then you’ll meet the right guy because you’ll be in a better place and will attract better people.
Good luck.
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i cheated on my boyfriend with two guys in one night when i was drunk. i just kept talking to him and i knew he still liked me. i brought up getting back together and he said no that’s never going to happen but it did! i’m not sure how i did it to be honest
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any guy who says that they kissed another girl is lying. I’m just letting you know that right now. men do not stop at kissing, especially if the girl doesn’t care at all. Period. So, don’t be surprised if you guys get into an arguement about the whole thing, and then he starts throwing the things YOU’VE done into your face, and when you start bringing up his faults, it’s got nothing to do with what you’re talking about.
it’s not going to work out, period
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You absolutely can work things out! Me and my husband got married young. I was 18, he was 20. In our 5th year of marriage we were really having problems and I ended up cheating on my husband. He forgave me and we made it work for a little while until he ended up cheating on me about 4 months later. We seperated after that for a few months. It was very difficult and I think that time apart made us both realize how much we really did love eachother and miss the other. And how much we took eachother for granted. Eventually after you could say "dating again" we both grew back in love together and are happier then ever! That was 3 years ago and we’re still going strong. We just celebrated out 10th anniversary. So don’t give up on your relationship just because mistakes were made. If you love eachother then it can always be saved! Hope this helped you a little
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