Thursday, February 9th, 2012

What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back!?! Please help! 10 points for Best Answer!?

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Ok so I am 18 and my ex gf is 17. She broke up with me the day after Thanksgiving (a little over a month ago). I deserved to be dumped b/c I treated her like complete sh*t. I mainly did this b/c I was hurting so bad inside. I went to the Doctor December 14th (without anyone asking me to get help, so that right there shows you I am wanting to change!) and he diagnosed me with a severe case of clinical depression. I am currently getting my meds under control and start therapy next week.

I contacted my ex today for the first time in nearly 3 weeks and she said that she loves me, she misses me, but she doesnt want to get hurt again. She said it will be MONTHS (yes, she said months!) before we can even become SEMI-friends again. I couldnt believe this! I had admitted to lying to her in the past today, I have also been manipulative towards her, and I always got mad at her over little things, but I have apologized hundreds of times for not getting help sooner; but other than this crap, our near year long relationship was perfect. She said that its caused so much stress on both our families (my bro and her half sister are married…its really not weird or anything so i dont want anyone talking crap), and I will agree that it has. Her parents disagree with her dating me b/c they think we just arent right for each other. SO WHAT CAN I SAY TO HER TO GET HER TO GIVE ME A CHANCE TO SHOW I HAVE CHANGED!?!

**Oh and I dont want to wait to long to get a relationship going again b/c in 7 months we will be going to different colleges that are about 30 minutes apart. BUT dont tell me to just move on b/c I am in absolute love with this girl and I just cant do that! Thanks a lot everyone! :)

Make her feel loved, be nice, sweet, etc.
Send her flowers, do cute stuff.
Write her a letter with how much you love her (a romantic one)

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2 Responses to “What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back!?! Please help! 10 points for Best Answer!?”
  1. Lala L says:

    Make her feel loved, be nice, sweet, etc.
    Send her flowers, do cute stuff.
    Write her a letter with how much you love her (a romantic one)
    References :

  2. MeAgaNzz says:

    ok i can clearly see you love her a lot i can tell even before you said you did.

    what you should do is possibly try to convince her to go out on a date with you sometime..like a movie or dinner or something and show her you’ve changed. Be sweet, compassionate, loving and caring and all that good stuff. Show her how much you love her even without saying it. Love can be shown as well as said and showing it is the most sacred thing ever. It will be difficult but when you pull it off it’ll be worth it.

    Im not guaranteeing my answer will work but it’s worth a shot and it would DEFINITELY work for me^^

    hope i helped!^^
    References :
    personal experience

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