Comments on: My Wife Wants to Leave Me – The Secret to Changing Her Mind http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-girlfriend/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/ Mon, 19 Sep 2011 20:20:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: The Ugly Sandhog http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-girlfriend/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5329 The Ugly Sandhog Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:23:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/881/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5329 Don't ban me, but are you responsible with money? Or do you have problems with saving it? I know that I used to be like that, till I channeled my inner Scotsman. We're cheap, we Scots. She might be trying to save up a down-payment on a new house, or she is setting aside money for a rainy day, like I'm sure you heard from your parents and grandparents. It is simple prudence to have several months worth of cash to tide you over if you lose your job in the next go round of lay offs. If this is the case, let it lay. If on the other hand it's not, then let her know that you know about it, but keep your hands off. If you really do suspect that she's about to bail, then make sure the courts do know about this money. As a previous poster said, it community property. If she's hiding it with the intent to divorce, then she may be committing a fraud.<br><b>References : </b><br> Don’t ban me, but are you responsible with money? Or do you have problems with saving it? I know that I used to be like that, till I channeled my inner Scotsman. We’re cheap, we Scots.
She might be trying to save up a down-payment on a new house, or she is setting aside money for a rainy day, like I’m sure you heard from your parents and grandparents. It is simple prudence to have several months worth of cash to tide you over if you lose your job in the next go round of lay offs. If this is the case, let it lay. If on the other hand it’s not, then let her know that you know about it, but keep your hands off.
If you really do suspect that she’s about to bail, then make sure the courts do know about this money. As a previous poster said, it community property. If she’s hiding it with the intent to divorce, then she may be committing a fraud.
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]]> By: Quiet Ripples http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-girlfriend/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5328 Quiet Ripples Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:21:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/881/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5328 Well if you have the fear that she is about to leave you, then you must be feeling pretty guilty about something that you did!!!<br><b>References : </b><br> Well if you have the fear that she is about to leave you, then you must be feeling pretty guilty about something that you did!!!
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]]> By: cassandra http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-girlfriend/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5327 cassandra Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:19:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/881/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5327 Its called mad money hun all moms teach their little girls to save a lil mad money every month so I u piss her off enough she can leave and feel financial secure that she can start her life over again<br><b>References : </b><br>My mama Its called mad money hun all moms teach their little girls to save a lil mad money every month so I u piss her off enough she can leave and feel financial secure that she can start her life over again
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]]> By: Anna C http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-girlfriend/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5326 Anna C Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:17:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/881/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5326 Leave it alone. It's for her protection incase you become abusive and she needs to run away. You never know with people, abuse can show up after years of marriage... She's probably not going to leave you. Just don't beat her up.<br><b>References : </b><br> Leave it alone. It’s for her protection incase you become abusive and she needs to run away. You never know with people, abuse can show up after years of marriage… She’s probably not going to leave you. Just don’t beat her up.
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]]> By: Adam http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-girlfriend/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5325 Adam Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:15:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/881/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5325 Well it's really hard to say Jason. We don't have both sides of the story or all of the details. It really depends on some very specific details to be able to give you the best answer. If the situation is that you both are happy, treat each other well, respect each other and so on, then I don't see what the problem is. I think she should have told you, but it's not that big of a deal. If the situation is that something is wrong between you two, marital issues and what not, then maybe she has good reason to be saving. Either way, just be thankful it's not money that she's trown away. Good luck.<br><b>References : </b><br> Well it’s really hard to say Jason. We don’t have both sides of the story or all of the details. It really depends on some very specific details to be able to give you the best answer.

If the situation is that you both are happy, treat each other well, respect each other and so on, then I don’t see what the problem is. I think she should have told you, but it’s not that big of a deal.

If the situation is that something is wrong between you two, marital issues and what not, then maybe she has good reason to be saving.

Either way, just be thankful it’s not money that she’s trown away. Good luck.
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]]> By: K D http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-girlfriend/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5324 K D Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:13:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/881/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5324 Anything is possible and you won't know unless you ask her. Unfortunately for her, regardless of where she got the money it belongs to both of you and she has no right to keep it secret from you. Law requires that it be split between you. As for snooping, I'm always surprised by people who feel guilty about snooping AFTER they found something. Anyone who is hiding something and gets caught clearly deserves to be spied on. They don't have a leg to stand on to use the "privacy" card after they already broke the trust code.<br><b>References : </b><br> Anything is possible and you won’t know unless you ask her. Unfortunately for her, regardless of where she got the money it belongs to both of you and she has no right to keep it secret from you. Law requires that it be split between you. As for snooping, I’m always surprised by people who feel guilty about snooping AFTER they found something. Anyone who is hiding something and gets caught clearly deserves to be spied on. They don’t have a leg to stand on to use the "privacy" card after they already broke the trust code.
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]]> By: IslandArtiste http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-girlfriend/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5323 IslandArtiste Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:11:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/881/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5323 It's FY money - every woman should have it!<br><b>References : </b><br> It’s FY money – every woman should have it!
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]]> By: Pao http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-girlfriend/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5322 Pao Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:09:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/881/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5322 at least while i was growing up, mu mom and grandma would always tell me to have my own money.... just bc you never know..... i dunno what kind of relationship you guys have, whether youre having problems or what. but i think most women like having money they know they can count on if they ever need it.... i wouldnt be paranoid about her leaving you......... it's not like you found out she had a double life or anything. if you really wanna get it off your chest, just come clean, tell her you were looking for something [unless you werent supposed to be there in the 1st place, then just make and excuse] and that you came across it.... if you dont it might keep bothering you, and it might lead to real problems... good luck!!! and dont think too much of it ^_~ Pao<br><b>References : </b><br> at least while i was growing up, mu mom and grandma would always tell me to have my own money…. just bc you never know…..

i dunno what kind of relationship you guys have, whether youre having problems or what. but i think most women like having money they know they can count on if they ever need it….

i wouldnt be paranoid about her leaving you……… it’s not like you found out she had a double life or anything.

if you really wanna get it off your chest, just come clean, tell her you were looking for something [unless you werent supposed to be there in the 1st place, then just make and excuse] and that you came across it…. if you dont it might keep bothering you, and it might lead to real problems…

good luck!!!

and dont think too much of it ^_~

Pao
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]]> By: Paul Hxyz http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-girlfriend/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5321 Paul Hxyz Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:07:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/881/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5321 No one can predict the future. However if I were you I would rejoice that your wife had the smarts to put away $16,000. In the event of an emergency you might just need it. Write down the information about the account and keep it hidden that you know anything about it - you might need the information later. Then create a secret stash of your own. Fair is fair.<br><b>References : </b><br> No one can predict the future.

However if I were you I would rejoice that your wife had the smarts to put away $16,000. In the event of an emergency you might just need it. Write down the information about the account and keep it hidden that you know anything about it – you might need the information later. Then create a secret stash of your own. Fair is fair.
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]]> By: jigfam http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-girlfriend/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5320 jigfam Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:05:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/881/my-wife-wants-to-leave-me-the-secret-to-changing-her-mind/#comment-5320 Money schmoney. Let's all hear about your lingerie fetish.<br><b>References : </b><br> Money schmoney. Let’s all hear about your lingerie fetish.
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