How to quickly get my ex girlfriend back?!?

Hey everyone… I was wondering how I could get my girlfriend back.

We have been dating for almost a year now, and we just recently broke up. We have broken up before, but never like this. She says that we just don’t get along and we don’t make eachother happy, and we just didn’t get along. I want to convince her that I really can make her happy! I know I can, I just went through a lot last year between being assaulted on my birthday, my parent’s divorce, tumors, financial problems, etc… etc…

I made a promise to myself, God, and the bible way way way before this girl came into my life. I promised myself that I would keep the girl whose virginity I took and I would forever stay with the girl who took my virginity. We both took eachother’s back in October 2009. & I am good on my word and promises & am a Christian so this promise to God will be kept.

Things are really awkward right now and my birthday is coming up on August 26th. I really want to ask for her back after we have a casual day of hanging out. What can I do until then to make it so that she is more prone to getting back with me? We also met for the first time on my birthday as well….. so it has significant value to it…

What sort of plan of action should I take to accomplish this? She cannot resist to get back with me if I kiss her passionately… but how would I be able to get her to kiss me if she is so awkward around me now?

^^^^^ That’s just a little option. What else could I do? I really really want to be with her! She completes me!

I love her with all of my heart and mind… I wanted to be with her forever, we even talked about having a child and buying a house up in Washington D.C. about 6 months ago……… I really want her back. She is the love of my life.

I could not ever bare to see her with another guy, it would kill me… and I know she feels the same way about me being with another girl! She is not involved with any guys right now in any way… as far as I know, all she is doing with any guy is texting her old best friend that she doesn’t see anymore because he isn’t allowed to see her.

So please, I really need some help. I am not talking to her as of right now for about a week unless she talks to me first. I am giving her space.

okay your on the right track. just give her some space. she obviously loves you too, but i dont think she is quite sure of herself right now. she may just want to take a little break. so give her that space, but not too much. no more than a week. you dont want her to find someone else! so on your birthday, or soon before it, just pour your heart out. it needs to be in person. get her a gift, something. just show her how much you love her and how much it would kill you if you didnt get back together. good luck, have faith.