How to get my ex girlfriend back? Quickly?
Hey everyone… I was wondering how I could get my girlfriend back.
We have been dating for almost a year now, and we just recently broke up. We have broken up before, but never like this. She says that we just don’t get along and we don’t make eachother happy, and we just didn’t get along. I want to convince her that I really can make her happy! I know I can, I just went through a lot last year between being assaulted on my birthday, my parent’s divorce, tumors, financial problems, etc… etc…
I made a promise to myself, God, and the bible way way way before this girl came into my life. I promised myself that I would keep the girl whose virginity I took and I would forever stay with the girl who took my virginity. We both took eachother’s back in October 2009. & I am good on my word and promises & am a Christian so this promise to God will be kept.
Things are really awkward right now and my birthday is coming up on August 26th. I really want to ask for her back after we have a casual day of hanging out. What can I do until then to make it so that she is more prone to getting back with me? We also met for the first time on my birthday as well….. so it has significant value to it…
What sort of plan of action should I take to accomplish this? She cannot resist to get back with me if I kiss her passionately… but how would I be able to get her to kiss me if she is so awkward around me now?
^^^^^ That’s just a little option. What else could I do? I really really want to be with her! She completes me!
I love her with all of my heart and mind… I wanted to be with her forever, we even talked about having a child and buying a house up in Washington D.C. about 6 months ago……… I really want her back. She is the love of my life.
and no, she does not have a guy with her now.
"absence makes the heart grow fonder."
you have to give it time! the spark has died
me and my gf broke up the exact same way.. 3 months later she wants me again!
try new friend circles in the mean time – there are hundreds of girls you can be attracted to.. somehow, with girls, when you don’t try too hard (and youre likable, energetic, and funny) – they want you so much more
wear the pants.
Tell her you wanna have sex with her.
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wow that is really old fashioned and maybe romantic. You seem like you really like her, I would say step back, because if she is really awkward around then that perhaps that means she knows you still like her and doesn’t like the attention she is getting from you. So step back and start fresh with her this time as friends and try to charm her. Maybe she will fall for you in time again. If you push it she will hate you.
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Tell her what you just told us! Trust me!!
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You are only prolonging your own anguish and agony.
It is a break up. It hurts terribly but is part of life.
In any break-up, the one who cares the most is also the most vulnerable. There is no mystical and magical destiny. You met, you liked each other, you dated, and possible loved each other. It is a part of learning and growth. It does not always last. People grow at different speeds. Some mature faster than others.
Right now, you feel lost without her but that is not a bad thing. It is a time for growth, strength, and emotional evolution. Rejoice and celebrate each time your heart is broken. Only when your heart is broken can the light enter. Not until you have felt the pain of suffering can you know how others suffer. This is where you learn empathy. This is when others can look into your eyes, the windows of the soul, and see texture, wisdom, compassion, and refinement. After the experience of a broken heart you become more attractive to the world.
Right now, you are desperate. Come back a year from now and read all the answers to this question. See who is right.
Leave her and move on.
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"absence makes the heart grow fonder."
you have to give it time! the spark has died
me and my gf broke up the exact same way.. 3 months later she wants me again!
try new friend circles in the mean time – there are hundreds of girls you can be attracted to.. somehow, with girls, when you don’t try too hard (and youre likable, energetic, and funny) – they want you so much more
wear the pants.
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well it all depends, does she have another guy with her now?
Anyways a very cheesy and old way to do this would be show her, how much you care. Send her a bunch of red roses (or a bunch of her favorite flowers) and leave a card with one sentence. Love,*you name*, I really mean it.
It will get her confused for a while, and then text her. Just asking how she is. Before you know it she’s talking and confiding in you. Just show her you can be a friend to her, and after a week ask her to go for a walk in the park. Thats when you kiss her and put your plan to work.
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Hello
Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore someone’s texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It’s better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back.
all the best
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You have not lost them for good. I was in a similar situation and ended up reading a lot of books on the subject of getting your ex back.
The books told me to do things that did not seem rational but they worked. I got my ex back after we were broken up for four months.
The book is http://www.sodahead.com/living/how-to-get-your-ex-back—10-mistakes-that-you-should-not-make/blog-365563 if you want to check it out. You will not believe how well the info will help you.
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http://www.sodahead.com/living/how-to-get-your-ex-back—10-mistakes-that-you-should-not-make/blog-365563