Thursday, February 9th, 2012

how can i get my ex girlfriend back?

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we had a good relationship we dated for about a month but then i had to let her go
so we stayed friends for 3 weeks and now i want her back i miss her like crazy
i cant stop thinking about her…..she never text back or call me any more
i tryed calling her but she just hangs up i hope she ain’t playing with my mind

Hi buddy

Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.

Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together

You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.

Don’t Be Jealous

Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

Being Flexible Is Very Important

Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.

These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back.
good luck

Comments

5 Responses to “how can i get my ex girlfriend back?”
  1. Jo Bob says:

    hahahaha u joke
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  2. Donella says:

    i personally do not know you ex-girl friend but me if you ha broke with me , i do not do go back ,why my experience sometimes guys pretend they want you back after whatever they left for did not workout and then expect you just to be there to take them back,NO. Im sorry, i hope she forgives you and make good on your part good luck.
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  3. ManBearPig says:

    if she is hanging up on you, she is not coming back. sorry bro
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  4. Joey says:

    Dude I spent 9 years without my first girlfriend because I kept using my own ideas…..Then i tried the tips in The Magic Of Making Up a guide written by an expert that works and now I am actually getting back with her and I am planing on proposing marriage. I am 31 bty.

    Get Her Back Today Dude!

    Make it Happen Man http://MagicofMakingUpGuide.info
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  5. Don Pardi says:

    Hi buddy

    Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.

    Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

    Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together

    You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

    You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

    But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

    So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
    You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.

    Don’t Be Jealous

    Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
    If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

    Being Flexible Is Very Important

    Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.

    These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back.
    good luck
    References :

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