Tuesday, October 21st, 2014

Will a libra male come back? How do I get a libra ex boyfriend to come back?

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My libra ex and I broke up just this week. I want him back so bad. What shoud I do to get him back? We were together for 1 year and half, he said he wanted to marry me and we reallly did love each other. He said I helped him so much in his life. What should I do to get him back

No one is going to wave their wand and make it all better for you. The only way you’re going to get anywhere is by:

- First of all accept him for who he is. Accept that he has a wondering eye and enjoys watching internet porn.
- Then forgive him for having a wondering eye and looking at internet porn. Because what’s the point of this relationship if he’s going to do it even though you’ve asked him not to.
- Talking to him.

I don’t understand why females (And sometimes, rarely males) want to change their partner to suite them. I mean, you met this person, you started to like this person, why do you work so hard in trying to change that person into something their not? Just accept them for who they are, the person you originally fancied.

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2 Responses to “Will a libra male come back? How do I get a libra ex boyfriend to come back?”
  1. Effelump's British Twin says:

    No one is going to wave their wand and make it all better for you. The only way you’re going to get anywhere is by:

    - First of all accept him for who he is. Accept that he has a wondering eye and enjoys watching internet porn.
    - Then forgive him for having a wondering eye and looking at internet porn. Because what’s the point of this relationship if he’s going to do it even though you’ve asked him not to.
    - Talking to him.

    I don’t understand why females (And sometimes, rarely males) want to change their partner to suite them. I mean, you met this person, you started to like this person, why do you work so hard in trying to change that person into something their not? Just accept them for who they are, the person you originally fancied.
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  2. Charles Uadiale says:

    Be Strong

    There is an old saying that "no one needs the needy" and it applies itself well to broken relationships. Begging, clinging, and desperate behavior is much more likely to repel your lost love rather than attract them. Not only is it important to prove to the world that you can perceiver in the toughest of times, but you also need to prove it to yourself. While no one is claiming that breakups are easy, keep the yelling and crying behind closed doors.

    Minimize Contact

    Closing the doors of communication may seem counter opposite to rebuilding a failed relationship, but it is one of the most important steps. There is a reason that things have made it to this point, and it is obvious that someone needs a break. Allowing time for reflection and thought is the best way to evaluate your relationship. This also gives your Ex time to clear their mind. It could be that some time away will remind them of how valuable your relationship was.

    Be Flexible

    This is not the time to start issuing mandates like "pick up your things by Monday or else". You are wrong if you think that you can scare someone into returning. Remember that your Ex left you because they were unsatisfied with some facet of your relationship. This means it is time to become the listener and sympathizer. This does not mean you have to concede to their every demand (see Stay Strong), but you will probably have to meet beyond halfway when rebuilding the bridge of communication.

    Get Out

    This is no time to be alone. Call your old friends and get out of the house. You need to develop other forms of entertainment in your life. This does not mean you have to date, or even look at the opposite sex (although who knows?). It simply means you need to occupy yourself and learn to develop a self-realization of who you are. Getting out will also be helpful for when you get back with your Ex. Your conversations will be spurred along by some of the new stories you have to tell.

    Be Yourself

    There was a reason that you and your Ex were initially attracted to each other, and this was because you are a unique person. Think of what made these first weeks or months so special, and try to identify what has changed. Sometimes relationships can become monotonous and you can forget what it was that made both of you compatible. Learn to accentuate your qualities and strive to be the real person you are. This renewed self-perception of yourself will rub off on everyone around you.

    It is not easy to win back the love of your life, but it can be done. Determination and consistency are the most essential qualities needed to be successful. The basic strategies above will get you started on your quest, but it is important to continue to adapt to the situation. If you truly love your Ex, then you need to do everything in your power to prove yourself. For more resources, please visit http://www.gettingyourexboyfriendback.info/
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