Thursday, February 9th, 2012

What should be the next step to get my ex-boyfriend back?

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I had a 3 years relationship with a guy. We broke up and been separated for 5 years.
I never forgot him. I have had diner with him lately (load of laughs and great catch up)
It was purely friendly.
I sent him an email afterwords to tell him I had a great time and he answered rapidly and signed his email with ‘sending you some love’…

What should be my next move?

a. let time pass and let him get back to me?
b. call him and invite him again? (in 1 week)
c call him and invite him again? (in 1 month)
d. … you tell me!!

Thanks!!
We split because I move in another city and I think we were to close as a couple.. we definitely needed space.
After the break up though, we saw each other again.. and then I met someone and he did too. And then times flew by and now we are both singles.

Give it a day or two and then ask him if he’d like to hang out again. Sounds like he enjoyed hanging out as much as you did. He may be wanting to ask you the same thing but not sure what to do. If you want to see him again, take the initiative and ask him. What do you have to lose?

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8 Responses to “What should be the next step to get my ex-boyfriend back?”
  1. robert johnson says:

    I would not call him….I think if yall met somewhere again you should ask him how he feels about what yall had before, and whether you will ever get back together or not will depend on his answer/reaction
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  2. Juan says:

    defetly call him for another date cause of that yall could remeber about all the old days then yall are gonna fall for eachother again and its gonna bee better than before(:
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  3. Claire says:

    you probably broke up for a good reason so you should stay broken up. sounds like u could still be friends tho
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  4. dpeachie says:

    Give it a day or two and then ask him if he’d like to hang out again. Sounds like he enjoyed hanging out as much as you did. He may be wanting to ask you the same thing but not sure what to do. If you want to see him again, take the initiative and ask him. What do you have to lose?
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  5. KennyG says:

    You are asking for our answer and have not supplied enough details…why did you break up after 3 years. Now that you have been 5 years apart, could it be that your memory has fogged over why you broke up to begin with? What has changed since the last time you were a couple? Are you sure you won’t replay an old drama??
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  6. spawn_of_evil9 says:

    im gonna have to say play hard to get that always gets us guys it makes us go crazy cause we know what you are doing and if you stay strong he will walk right into the trap then close the deal…. have fun
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  7. steph says:

    hes an ex for a reason, isn’t he?. if it didn’t work the first time, why would it work the second. thats just my option anyways.
    but dont do what yahoo answers tell you to do, do what you feel in your heart to do. whatever your heart is telling you, take it slow, but not to slow, and tell him how you feel.
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  8. Randy says:

    Well you know him better than we do. Was that romantic for him, or just a "see ya"? Also where do you want it to go? I like B if you like him a lot, and are really ready to get back with him.
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