what can i say to get my ex boyfriend back?
we split up about 3 weeks ago because he said i changed an i lied when i never. i cried for about 2 days i was gutted. i tried everything to get him back rang him seen him an tried speaking to him but all he was bothered about is this lad that id been speaking to. it was like he didnt want me to be involved with any other lad. he said he wants to come round to mine on the weekend to ‘sort things out’ i really want him back please help me with what i can say to him to make him believe how much i want him back . this is URGENT
i understand what yous are all sayin. but hes cumin to sort it out this weekend. he actually asked me if he could. you need to help me what i can say so i dont make a fool of myself thanks i proper aprreciate this
The question is why aren’t people trying to work on their relationships anymore? Why aren’t they willing to do whatever it takes? Quite frankly, there are tons of reasons for that. But if you don’t want to throw the towel in and love your ex-boy or girlfriend enough to be able to do anything to get your ex back, then these tips are for you.
1. Ok. It Wasn’t Totally His/Her Fault
You know, if you look at it, you will find that you contributed to the breakup. Even if you were loving, kind, nice, sweet … and all the supposed good things you were, you still did something. It is amazing to see people get attracted to each other and then settle into some boring routine.
Most people say that love is in phases: attraction, attachment, security and all that. While this may be so, you should realise that something brought you two together in the first place. What did you see in him or her?
Think about this critically. Did you stop being playful? Did you get too serious and demanding? Did stop being sexy what he/she found intriguing at the onset? Did you stop being attentive?
You will notice that I did not ask the common questions like, “Am I not sexy anymore? Did I not give him enough?”. This is because most times, that’s not the issue. The issue is deeper and more ingrained. Think about this and find out where you went wrong. Please note: This phase is important and is the foundation for to get your ex back.
2. It’s Time For The Green Light
After you have found where you were wrong, call him/her and try to get together. When you get to meet, tell him/her where you went wrong. Most times, asking him/her may not be a good idea as they may be too nice to tell you. In some instances, they may not even know the real reason why they broke up with you. So, apologise and no matter how much you want to tell him/her you want them, DON’T! This is the second crucial thing to do to get your ex back.
3. Walk Away
As soon as you’re done, walk away. Do you understand that? Don’t go all mushy and teary. Don’t ask to be taken back. Pity wasn’t the reason he/she started dating you. It’s not the reason you’ll get your ex back. Even if the pain feels unbearable and you’re on the verge of tears, make sure you’re ought of sight or safely home before crying.
With these 3 moves, you have set the stage and have gotten the ball rolling to get your ex back. There’s more to this, but start with these and you will find that his/her interest in you will slightly increase.
Ok..this is a tough answer and I hope that I am wrong, but it seems to me that he is using an excuse that you lied as a reason to control you. It sounds as if you have said everything you want/should have said already. If he loved you, he would give you the opportunity to explain yourself, and surely he would know you well enough to understand you and why you would have lied( even if you didn’t). Also…where is the trust? When he sees you, it appears that you are ready to fall at his feet begging for his understanding…etc but it should be the other way round!!! He should be asking you for your forgiveness in judging you so harshly and not trusting you!!!! Sorry, you may love him but ask yourself does he love you in the same way? How would you react if the tables were turned? You have to love yourself in order to be loved back in the way you want. Sorry if I sound harsh, I hope you do manage to sort things out.
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You are having a fickle minded person, as your boyfriend. If he is unable to tolerate you speaking with another lad, he seems to be immature. Why do you want him back? He should come back to you, if he really loves you. You are trying to enter into a relationship, with a suspicious type of person, and also a over possessive person, do think, before, you really can have him back.
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Jessy,
I know you want him back, but calling him and talking to him isn’t the best way to get him back right now. It seems that he’s pretty upset and defensive at the moment, so try to give him some space. I know it hurts, but try not to talk to him for 2 weeks or so.
Giving him space will let both of you clear your heads and then your next meeting will be much more pleasant.
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Good luck Jessy!
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The question is why aren’t people trying to work on their relationships anymore? Why aren’t they willing to do whatever it takes? Quite frankly, there are tons of reasons for that. But if you don’t want to throw the towel in and love your ex-boy or girlfriend enough to be able to do anything to get your ex back, then these tips are for you.
1. Ok. It Wasn’t Totally His/Her Fault
You know, if you look at it, you will find that you contributed to the breakup. Even if you were loving, kind, nice, sweet … and all the supposed good things you were, you still did something. It is amazing to see people get attracted to each other and then settle into some boring routine.
Most people say that love is in phases: attraction, attachment, security and all that. While this may be so, you should realise that something brought you two together in the first place. What did you see in him or her?
Think about this critically. Did you stop being playful? Did you get too serious and demanding? Did stop being sexy what he/she found intriguing at the onset? Did you stop being attentive?
You will notice that I did not ask the common questions like, “Am I not sexy anymore? Did I not give him enough?”. This is because most times, that’s not the issue. The issue is deeper and more ingrained. Think about this and find out where you went wrong. Please note: This phase is important and is the foundation for to get your ex back.
2. It’s Time For The Green Light
After you have found where you were wrong, call him/her and try to get together. When you get to meet, tell him/her where you went wrong. Most times, asking him/her may not be a good idea as they may be too nice to tell you. In some instances, they may not even know the real reason why they broke up with you. So, apologise and no matter how much you want to tell him/her you want them, DON’T! This is the second crucial thing to do to get your ex back.
3. Walk Away
As soon as you’re done, walk away. Do you understand that? Don’t go all mushy and teary. Don’t ask to be taken back. Pity wasn’t the reason he/she started dating you. It’s not the reason you’ll get your ex back. Even if the pain feels unbearable and you’re on the verge of tears, make sure you’re ought of sight or safely home before crying.
With these 3 moves, you have set the stage and have gotten the ball rolling to get your ex back. There’s more to this, but start with these and you will find that his/her interest in you will slightly increase.
References :
http://getyourexbackplans.com/blog/