how to get my ex boyfriend back?
me and my ex have only been broken up for 4 days and i want him back. he is my world, my everything, my happiness, and most importantly my other half. i’ve done everything from begging him to acting like he didn’t exist. he told me that he loves me its just he doesn’t want to be broken hearted so he rather break my heart then his. i’m up for anything and type of advise. but please just don’t tell me to move on. i cant move on. and please most of all don’t tell me i’m either to young or i don’t know what love is cause i do know what love is. i’ve never felt this way about anybody else!
Hi
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to remove your negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don’t annoy your ex boyfriend. Men just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously call, sms him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s very important give your ex boyfriend time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When looking good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
hope it helps
you move urself with confident and talk to him
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same here, he broke up with me 4 days after our anniversary ):
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myself
just let time take its course ,
everythign will work out the way they should .
you will be happy in the end
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just because you never felt this way about anyone else doesn’t mean you absolutely need him. look at yourself. you’re completely obsessive. who wants to be with someone that’s obsessive? he obviously didn’t care about you when he said he’d rather you be heart broken than him. if he really loved you he would have been heart broken either way but since you’re so obsessed and sick over this one guy you can’t see that. just because you love someone doesn’t mean you need them in your life. learn to use your brain and you won’t end up in situations like this.
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give it longer than 4 days and stay with an approach. You can’t be jumping from ignoring him to begging him and expect him to take you seriously
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1st of all do not beg him or over call him! i made the same mistakes when I was in a similar situation as you are with wanting your ex back. Just wait it out, if he truely loves you he will call you after some time and play it cool, do not express your undying love for him just yet. Wait for him 2 say whats on his mind. This happened 2 me and me & my ex are back together, that is the good news. The bad news is it took him 3 weeks to call once and the next day he called again I still played it cool then the 3rd call he could no longer stand it and asked me 2 be his gf again. Hope it happens sooner for you!
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Hi
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to remove your negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don’t annoy your ex boyfriend. Men just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously call, sms him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s very important give your ex boyfriend time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When looking good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
hope it helps
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Ironically, the way to give your self the best chances of getting them back is to NOT TRY… Instead, go date other people, and be scarce in her life.
In other words, you’re never going to make them feel any ATTRACTION for you again by staying in touch, being their friend, and being "nice"… and by trying to "win them over" again.
It would be nice if things worked that way, but they don’t. And stop calling your ex. Stop responding to them quickly. People all behave in a very similar and predictable manner and this will make them feel psychologically attracted to you.
This is the most important piece of advice to get her back so don’t ignore it. If you want other psychological tricks to get her back, read this: I was basically in the same situation. Before you do anything read some books on the subject before you make mistakes that you cannot take back.
The most helpful info that I found was at http://www.sodahead.com/living/how-to-get-your-ex-back—10-mistakes-that-you-should-not-make/blog-365563/ and I think that it saved my five year relationship.
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I was basically in the same situation. Before you do anything, Check out this website. It has many info that tells you exactly what to do to get your ex back. It saved my five year relationship. Hope that helps.
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http://tinyurl.com/getexbacksecret