how to get back your ex boyfriend who is married?
he is not happy in his marriage…and want too leave but dont know how
Stay the heck away from someone’s marriage. It’s going to hurt you at the end, there’s a reason why this guy is an ex boyfriend. Do not help someone ruin a marriage, everyone knows how to end a marriage if they’re not happy with it. They file for divorce, don’t be no one’s other woman!!!!!!!!!!!
well you should leave that up to him, tell him to tell his wife that he is not happy, and he wants a divorce.
thats wrong, how do you know he wants to get back with you?
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not trying to be mean.
leave him alone.
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You can’t – its up to him.
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give it up, the world is a big place and you can find someone who is not attached at the ring finger.
it will be better for both of you that way
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cheating
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you don’t. he’s married. if he wants out, that’s his business. wait til he is before you go after him
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But why would he want to backtrack to you?You guys are exes for a reason.If he leaves, then he’ll do it on his own but don’t expect him to come running back to you.
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uhh you dont?
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then let it crumble on it’s own, if you add to it your own karma will become tarnished and you will be paying it back x3.
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your probably not helping things by trying to get him away from his wife
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That’s totally up to him. There’s not a thing in the world you can do to change his heart and mind. If he really wants out, he’ll get out. It’s not really your place to encourage that though. Your ship sailed when you broke up with him.
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Don’t get in the middle of his marriage. Be there as a friend, and if he divorces his wife, then you can be there, but you don’t want him resenting you and you don’t want to be the homewrecker.
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It’s called a divorce, it isn’t that hard. Just have him look in the local yellow pages for divorce attorneys/law firms. There may even be local ways to resolve it without needing legal help. Have him look into local state/city laws and see what he can do.
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home wrecker
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jerry springer
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Let him decide what to do, whether it be divorce or whatever, just don’t be a homewrecker
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leave it to him you shouldn’t have anything to do with it and if he comes back to you then so be it but wait till he divorces her
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GET A LIFE IT’S A REASON HE IS EX
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marry his dad…
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Stay the heck away from someone’s marriage. It’s going to hurt you at the end, there’s a reason why this guy is an ex boyfriend. Do not help someone ruin a marriage, everyone knows how to end a marriage if they’re not happy with it. They file for divorce, don’t be no one’s other woman!!!!!!!!!!!
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tell his wife your pregnant with his baby
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sorry if hes still there hes happy where he is and lying to you.
if he wanted out he would be out and in your bed already.
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When your married you stay for ‘better or worse" its an old line and your falling for it, he wants his ego massaged. Two become one in a marriage there are ups and downs to all marriages none are perfect.
If you get involved your the one going to be out in the cold.
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Leave him alone hes playing your strings. don’t be a home wrecker you don’t know what goes on behind closed doors if a guy is telling you his marriage is bad and wants to be with you hes lying find a new man remember the reason why you broke up in the first place
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Wait until he leaves his marriage and then make a move once you know he is single but don’t be a home wrecker what if he in like 2 months realizes he loves his wife again how would you feel if you helped break them up!
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why would you want to do that thats so bichy im sorry but i bet your a real fat bich no efence and its really imature for you to get back at your boyfriend
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You cannot make anyone like you. His marriage problems are not your business. You are an ex for a reason. Every marriage has problems, and it is how they work together to work it out that makes it a stronger relationship.
If he wanted to leave his marriage, he would know how. You stay away from him. It is not right to be hanging around an ex because you want him back.
Go and volunteer somewhere and help others who really need help.
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Do not be the cause of him trying to get a divorce.
Oh, is that what he’s telling you? I wouldn’t be so quick to believe it. Lots of marriages go through ups and downs – they don’t all end. He knows how to end it – pick up the phone and call an attorney. That’s why I wouldn’t believe him. Unless he fell off the turnip wagon yesterday, he should have a clue. He’s just blowing smoke at you.
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You leave him alone; you’re about to get hurt. If he ever divorces, then he’s free game. Right now, he’s off limits. YOU ARE ABOUT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKEN. RUN, RUN, RUN.
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Wear that low-cut blouse of yours, invite him somewhere private and show him what he’s been missing. That aught to do it.
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He is just saying that because he is a LOOSER and wants to keep his wife and sleep with you too. If he didnt want to be with her he wouldn’t be. If he wanted to be with you 100% he wouldn’t still be married. What a LIAR and your a sucker for falling for it. His wife should kick your butt and his too!!! If he is married to her and running around with you….do you think your the only one? If he can lie to his wife, he can lie to you too.
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Uh??? YOU DON’T!!!
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Use that matter in your head they call a brain!
Learn how to respect another woman’s marriage and leave her husband alone.
Your just a piece of a*s on the side for him nothing more…He will never leave his wife for you cause if cared at all about you he would have left her for you by now.
Find your own man you homewrecker.
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If he really wants to leave his marriage then that is what he will do, you should not interfere
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Newsflash:
He may or may not be unhappy, and he may or may not WANT to leave, but he DOES know HOW to leave…
HE JUST DOESN’T CHOOSE TO.
Stop being a fool, Honey.
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This is up to him and his wife to work out without any outside damage. Leave them alone. If he decides to leave her then you have a chance. But it cannot be any of your business. I mean this with kindness. If you push him he may go to you but realize he made a mistake and go back to his wife. This has to be entirely his own decision. Nobody doesn’t know how to leave his or her wife. I hope he isn’t stringing you along with that story for your own sake.
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Could you ever trust him not to leave you for another woman?
I would suggest staying away – and if he ever leaves his wife, then consider getting back in touch with him.
My ex-brother-in-law was "unhappy in his marriage" so he was always looking for his next wife. Counting my sister and the wife before her and the 2 after her, I know he did it at least 4 times. Not sure what his current count is, haven’t heard from him in over 20 years.
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He doesnt know how to leave? That is code for I’m not leaving but its great having u around. U ever read any of the posts on here from women saying hes not happy but blah, blah, blah. They dont leave their families and if they do they move on from their mistresses. He’;s ur ex bf. Why would u want him back and why would u want someone u cant have now???
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If he wants to leave what is stopping him. Nothing is physically holding him a bad marriage. I don’t understand why people stay in a bad marriage. If you are not happy and the other person is not happy what is the point in staying together. You cannot make him leave. That is something that he will have to do on his own. Because if he wanted to leave and be with you he would all ready have left. Something is making him stay. I am not trying to be mean but my sister is going thur the same thing and she will not leave her dead beat husband.
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Well you don’t get him back………unless he comes to you with divorce papers signed saying he wants you back!
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As this seems like just years ago my mom was in the same boat. Her solution was to let her ex know just how much she loved him and needed him. She also let him know that she has changed for the better and it all went from there. They have been back together now going on 7 years. Good Luck. Also do what your heart tells you and him to do….
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A friend of mine had a relationship with a married man and for two years he swore he was going to leave and never did. He strung her along and gave her gifts and promised her he’d leave, but always had an excuse, her Mom was sick or her Grandmother died. He’d plan vacations and bail out because of a family emergency. He eventually admitted he never really cared, she was basically what convinced him that what he had at home was worth saving, his midlife crisis. He’s still with his wife and my friend has since moved on with a single, available man.
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he’s playing you. he’s telling you he’s not happy in his marriage, so you will give up the booty to him. It must have worked, or you wouldn’t be in here asking this question.
I garantee, that if you talked to his wife, she would tell you other wise. I bet she thinks the marriage is just fine.
he will never leave his wife for you, they never do. They just use women like you for sex on the side, and then throw you to the trash when they are done. So I hope you enjoy being treated like a sex object
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you CANT get him BACK HELLO HE IS MARRIED, and if he is so unhappy than he needs to get a divorce and than start another relationship with you, but until than you really need to leave that MARRIED man ALONE. HELLO HE IS YOUR EX for a reason remember the reasons. always go forward in life not backward. can you say LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES. GodBless
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don’t be the home wrecker or "the other woman" if ur ex-boyfriend really cared he wouldn’t hav gotten down on one knee, so if he isn’t happy thats his fault…..please (for ur own sake) don’t be the rebound
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dnt wanna be mean either
Hmm. Well, if information is all that is preventing him from leaving his marriage for you, then try to sneak him out while everyone is at morning prayer time (he is Omish, yes?) Then introduce him to the Internet, and he will be able to accomplish his every wish! Soon he will leave his wife and marry you, *swoon.* Oh, to think, dreams really do come true!
Come on now. You don’t ever, ever try to get someone back. Have you ever seen this work? Come on…
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Happiness is key in marriage. If he is unhappy then he needs to get out. He needs to decide the time. It has to be for him. It can’t be for you. He needs to explain to her that he is not happy. NO ONE should be in a relationship unless they are happy. Another note Have you considered he was telling you he was unhappy to get some booty.
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If he really wants to get out of the marriage he can. All he has to do is divorce her. Are there any children involve? If yes, I can understand how it can be complicating.
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He knows how he just doesn’t want to. Leave him alone. He didn’t pick you. He picked her. Deal with it.
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Oh, my God, you’re going to get slaughtered by the fat ass friends network of jilted wives with this one.
My boyfriend is married, and we have a better relationship than any two people I’ve ever known.
If you are seriously entertaining entering into a relationship with a married man, I would advise you to consider the following, and be prepared to:
Be patient. If you really love each other, you will always find the time to be together. Be careful. If you really love him, you will want what is best for him, and that is to NOT get caught. And never let yourself be the (nagging, selfish, slovenly, money grubbing ) woman he is trying to get away from.
Never ever let other people judge your relationship. Enjoy your life, it’s the only one you have.
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