How do you get your ex boyfriend back with out being so obvious about it?
well my boyfriend broke up with me and I still like him a lot. I still dream about him and everything. But I don’t think he still likes me.
When me and my ex broke off, I tried every rule in the book to get him back, i’ve read countless articles of how to get him back, and been all over Yahoo answers to find a way to get back with him.
truth is he did eventually come back, and eventually wanted to be with me, but it was due to the fact that I stopped trying and started to live my life the best way possible. I ran into a new guy, and me and him started dating, and somehow My ex got really jealous and wanted me back. I guess it goes for the old saying you never know what you have until is gone. But I’ll give you a few tips anyway to help you out.
For starters, I’m sure everyone has said this and know this…..do not contact him…do not beg him back, do not cause drama when you are with him.
second, spend your time bettering yourself, find some new activities that you always wanted to do but never had a chance to, and get your body in shape to build your self confidence
third, spend time with friends, make new friends, find people to hangout with, get to know other people
fourth, start answering other people’s questions about their ex’s, and how they feel, sometimes when you realize that you are not the only one suffering, you might feel better, you might want even answer some of your own questions on here b/c chances are there are other people going through the same exact thing, I happen to be one of them.
fifth, don’t read in between the lines, if your ex wants to hangout, or if he calls to ask a question, or if he gives you any signal that might make you think he wants you back, don’t fall for it….sometimes after a breakup, your consicious makes you believe what you want to believe and plays mind tricks. Take everything that he does or say for what it is, and nothing more. If he ask you out to a movie, then don’t see it as a date, don’t see it as he wants you back or else you will be dissapointed when his intentions are not what you expected.
sixth, keep in mind, the power lies in the person that cares the least, so if you stop wanting something so bad, and stop caring about it, maybe he will come back crawling to you once he realize he’s got nothing left. " the grass is not always greener on the other side". Sooner or later, he will think of you, and realize it’s too late, don’t let him know you are waiting for him, b/c then he’ll just keep doing him and forget that you existed.
seventh, if you guys do decide to be friends, try not to be emotional about the fact that you guys are JUST FRIENDS, in fact be exactly just that, let him know he can’t have you anymore, b/c you are not his g/f.
8th, if he ask you for favors, do them, but don’t rush to do it, but be nice about it when he asks, and than go back to the friend zone, which means you are not calling him 24/7, and you keep it short and brief on the phone and stop texting.
9th, if he asks you about your life, tell him you are doing great, you have all these things going on for yourself, and that you have this guy that has a crush on you, and you might consider going out with him. ( don’t do this unless you think this will backfire on you )….but honestly, sometimes making a guy jealous and letting him know he no longer has you is the best way to slap him in the face and get him to come to a realization.
10th, only b/c if theres a 9th rule, I might as well make a 10th rule…lol. don’t let him know you are doing all this to get him back, don’t do anything that he might think you are using it to play games with him…soooo… make yourself valuable, make yourself beautiful, and make yourself into a cold heartless human being that doesn’t give a crap about him..and you should do fine 
GOOD LUCK….keep in mind…destiny is already written…so prepare yourself that no matter what you do… you can’t change what’s not meant to be…but you can change the fact that you won’t regret what you didn’t do 10 years from now by putting your best efforts now.
get over it, its tuff.
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Let him go. I know it’s easier said than done, but you deserve someone who wants to be with you.
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then its over you can’t make him want something he isn’t in to
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Contract some really nasty form of STD. Offer him one last night of break up sex. Give him STD. Laugh at him for having an STD. Commit suicide so you no longer have it.
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When me and my ex broke off, I tried every rule in the book to get him back, i’ve read countless articles of how to get him back, and been all over Yahoo answers to find a way to get back with him.
truth is he did eventually come back, and eventually wanted to be with me, but it was due to the fact that I stopped trying and started to live my life the best way possible. I ran into a new guy, and me and him started dating, and somehow My ex got really jealous and wanted me back. I guess it goes for the old saying you never know what you have until is gone. But I’ll give you a few tips anyway to help you out.
For starters, I’m sure everyone has said this and know this…..do not contact him…do not beg him back, do not cause drama when you are with him.
second, spend your time bettering yourself, find some new activities that you always wanted to do but never had a chance to, and get your body in shape to build your self confidence
third, spend time with friends, make new friends, find people to hangout with, get to know other people
fourth, start answering other people’s questions about their ex’s, and how they feel, sometimes when you realize that you are not the only one suffering, you might feel better, you might want even answer some of your own questions on here b/c chances are there are other people going through the same exact thing, I happen to be one of them.
fifth, don’t read in between the lines, if your ex wants to hangout, or if he calls to ask a question, or if he gives you any signal that might make you think he wants you back, don’t fall for it….sometimes after a breakup, your consicious makes you believe what you want to believe and plays mind tricks. Take everything that he does or say for what it is, and nothing more. If he ask you out to a movie, then don’t see it as a date, don’t see it as he wants you back or else you will be dissapointed when his intentions are not what you expected.
sixth, keep in mind, the power lies in the person that cares the least, so if you stop wanting something so bad, and stop caring about it, maybe he will come back crawling to you once he realize he’s got nothing left. " the grass is not always greener on the other side". Sooner or later, he will think of you, and realize it’s too late, don’t let him know you are waiting for him, b/c then he’ll just keep doing him and forget that you existed.
seventh, if you guys do decide to be friends, try not to be emotional about the fact that you guys are JUST FRIENDS, in fact be exactly just that, let him know he can’t have you anymore, b/c you are not his g/f.
8th, if he ask you for favors, do them, but don’t rush to do it, but be nice about it when he asks, and than go back to the friend zone, which means you are not calling him 24/7, and you keep it short and brief on the phone and stop texting.
9th, if he asks you about your life, tell him you are doing great, you have all these things going on for yourself, and that you have this guy that has a crush on you, and you might consider going out with him. ( don’t do this unless you think this will backfire on you )….but honestly, sometimes making a guy jealous and letting him know he no longer has you is the best way to slap him in the face and get him to come to a realization.
10th, only b/c if theres a 9th rule, I might as well make a 10th rule…lol. don’t let him know you are doing all this to get him back, don’t do anything that he might think you are using it to play games with him…soooo… make yourself valuable, make yourself beautiful, and make yourself into a cold heartless human being that doesn’t give a crap about him..and you should do fine
GOOD LUCK….keep in mind…destiny is already written…so prepare yourself that no matter what you do… you can’t change what’s not meant to be…but you can change the fact that you won’t regret what you didn’t do 10 years from now by putting your best efforts now.
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if your break up is fresh the i suggest that you keep the distance for the mean time to heal wounds and avoid arguments if you guys get the chance to talk and sort things out. But if it was weeks or months ago, you can get your ex back by letting him know that he can still count on you despite the break up.
You can give him a call and ask him how he’s doing and that you wish him the best and that you’d like to chat and catch up soon. If he obliged then make sure that you look stunning that day (you can start by working out and trying new fashion styles or a new do).
Be friendly and supportive of him and do not push the idea of getting back together. On the other hand let him personally realize that it was a lost in his part that he let you go. When given the chance, let him remember the good times you spent when you were still together.
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