How do you get your ex-boyfriend back?
Question by Mindex-bby(:: How do you get your ex-boyfriend back?
I broke up with my boyfriend like A LONG time ago and I’m still in love. What should I do ?
Best answer:
Answer by Kara
tell him you made a mistake
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ima going thrugh the same prob. i miss him and my he told my best friend he sorta likes her. boohoo me
Forget about him….There’s a reason why people from your past don’t make it to your future! You’ve probably forgotten why your relationship didn’t work the first time! If that much time has past, you’ve both changed and even if you got back together, it wouldn’t be what you think it might be! You might be in love with the memory of happier days together…..but if you were both that happy you never would have split! Don’t put any more emotional energy into thinking about him.
Guys will be guys. You won’t be able to get him back. The only thing you can do is move on with yourself. I don’t know this guy, but if you figure that he still has feelings for you, maybe you could give it a try. If not, don’t bug & just move on.
i have the same problem i broke up with my boyfriend and now we are friends
but now he is goin out with this new chick! i fell like a idiot i still love him but he cant see it
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
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Hey Mindy, you know, sometimes it’s just not meant to be. And whether or not you pursue the relationship is 100% your decision. But keep in mind that if you never make an effort to reconcile, you’ll never know what COULD have been.
So if you want to make an effort to get your ex back… look me up. I’ve written a ton about this topic, and I’ll help anyone who needs to know more. Seeing as your break up happened a long time ago… you’ll pretty much have a clear mind going into this.
Anything is possible.
Time may be your friend. But first you must deal with why you broke up with your ex in the first place. You were in love A LONG time ago also but that love didnt stop you from leaving him.
What makes you believe time has changed the reason for the breakup?
Understand to love someone and to be in love with that person are not the same thing. Really.
First understand and deal with the cause of you breaking up with your ex and see if it is really wise to get your ex boyfriend back or best to move on. If you think it is right. Tell him.
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Here are some effective tips that will increase your chances of patching things up.
Tip # 1 on how to get your ex boyfriend back: Know the exact reason for the break-up.
What happened? Ask yourself that question and really, really dig deep for the answer. Where did your break up stem from?
To get your ex boyfriend back, it’s highly important that you deal with whatever issues you may have. Were you too clingy? Did you take him for granted?
Be honest with yourself and try to change the things that caused the problems in your relationship. Once he sees the change, he’ll be more open to giving the relationship another try.
Tip # 2 on how to get your ex boyfriend back: Don’t look desperate.
Talking about what went wrong and what the relationship means to both of you is crucial. However, don’t go to him in tears and distress.
Don’t call him on the phone everyday declaring your love. Don’t play stalker and don’t start sending him gifts or flowers. Doing all these things just might freak him out.
The best thing to do to get your ex boyfriend back is to talk to him sincerely like a rational person.
Tip # 3 on how to get your ex boyfriend back: Bring back sweet memories.
There’s nothing like a walk down memory lane to get your guy to reconsider the status of your relationship. Talk about the first time you met, and what made the two of you fall for each other in the first place.
Although guys might like to put up a cold front, most of them actually still harbor strong feelings for their girl. It’s also not a bad idea to remind him of the girl he fell in love with in the first place.
You can get your ex back. Many people including a friend of mine have done this.
You need to do some things and avoid some other things to increase the chances of getting your ex back.
Here is a complete system that has brought more than 10,000 couples back together:
http://www.get-your-ex-back.info
First of all, are you sure that he is not already in another relationship with someone? Because that would make things difficult. Are you still in contact with him?
There are some things that you can do to get an ex back, but all of them include good communication, the interest of both parties in getting back together, and the ability for both of you to discuss what led to the break up in the first place.
If he is in another relationship, or has no interest in getting back together, it is definitely time to move on. Holding on to an ex boyfriend is often a good way to avoid getting involved with someone else and getting hurt. I still have fond feelings for some of my ex-boyfriends, but would not say that I am in love with them, because I have no idea what they are doing or where they are.
Be nice to him and enjoy your life without him.
If you broke up with him a LONG time ago, then it’s going to take some work.
If your mind is spinning and you’re saying “I’m still in love with my ex” then rest assured you’re not the only one in this boat. There are hundreds of thousands of people who find themselves in this position after a breakup of a long term relationship marriage. They cannot believe what has happened and hold out hope that something can bring it all together, back how it used to be. I know that things are bleak right now, and you might think there is no hope, but in reality there is hope for you.
So you’re saying “I’m still in love with my ex” and you might be wishing that things could be how they were before. But let’s pretend that you could turn back time. Would you get the same results or would things be different?
You need to really look closely at the mistakes that were made, why they happened, and what you learned from them. To get your ex back, you will have to start again at zero to win over their love. If you’re still in love with your ex, you’ll have to bring that love to a level higher than before.
First try to be a friend again. Remember we want to take things s-l-o-w at this stage. If you’re trying to jump right back into things, your ex might recoil at the idea. Don’t push. Don’t be over aggressive. If you’re meant to be together, you will.
Next you want to make sure you’re in a good ‘headspace’. You don’t want to come across to your ex as a miserable, depressed, empty shell of who you were. It’s unattractive, as harsh as that may sound. But just think-would you like to be with someone who was such a downer? Probably not. Most of us are looking for happiness, someone to lift us up and understand us. You will instead be an encouraging friend with your own life, but who still has feelings for your ex.
If you’re still in love with your ex you owe it to yourself right now to continue investigating how to get your ex back as soon as possible.