How do I get my Ex boyfriend Back?
I broke it off with my boyfriend a little over a month ago We both said mean things but ended cordially. I love him and I don’t want to be without him, I now realize. I gave him his space…and dated other guys(nothing serious or intimate). He hasn’t dated anyone else. He invited to his family’s for the Thanksgiving, I declined but called him to see how he was doing. He responded well, says he misses me etc. What do I do now?
The old phrase, absence makes the heart grow stronger is true. Since you’ve been apart, he obviously still thinks about you.
The first thing you need to do though is figure out why you two broke up in the first place. If that isn’t discovered and addressed, it is bound to happen again causing another breakup.
You also want to be careful not to focus all your energy in trying to get him back. If your only concern is making up, you may come across as needy and that’s not a good image.
When you do decide to try it again, start off slow and make sure you discuss the original cause so you can work through it together and keep it from repeating itself.
Good Luck!
talk to him, tell him you feel you made a mistake… good luck…
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Be the person he fell in love with. He was attracted to you because he felt good with you, and you were fulfilling his emotional needs. How have you changed? Correct bad habits and mistakes, if any. Be positive around him. Laugh and smile.
Use the past to your advantage. If he’s ever complimented your outfit, wear it again. Or, share a light-hearted memory with him.
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Sounds like you never lost him.
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Girl you got some explaining to do with him, you better get a talkin with him before hes gone too far and wont go back. keep talkin to him, tell him you made one big mistake . and if your lucky he will expect
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The old phrase, absence makes the heart grow stronger is true. Since you’ve been apart, he obviously still thinks about you.
The first thing you need to do though is figure out why you two broke up in the first place. If that isn’t discovered and addressed, it is bound to happen again causing another breakup.
You also want to be careful not to focus all your energy in trying to get him back. If your only concern is making up, you may come across as needy and that’s not a good image.
When you do decide to try it again, start off slow and make sure you discuss the original cause so you can work through it together and keep it from repeating itself.
Good Luck!
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So far you seem to be doing all the right things and not rushing this and you gave him and yourself some much needed space.
Your boyfriend misses you and this is a good sign, you need to start to re-build the relationship again but its important that you don’t try too hard just be yourself, this is what attracted your boyfriend to you in the first place.
Keep that line of communication open, this is very important. Perhaps you could go to a movie together or have dinner and talk about how you both feel, be open and honest but don’t put your boyfriend under pressure or make any demands.
I hope that helps
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