How can I get my aries ex boyfriend back?
I am a scorpio female, and I was with my aries boyfriend for about 4 months. We became extremely deep in our relationship very quickly. We both had strong feelings and cared about each other very much. He was affectionate and loving, and did whatever made me happy. Our relationship was going very well, and I had no complaints what so ever. I knew for a fact that he cared very much and he made it clear that I was the best thing that had happened to him and I was the only girl he wanted. I was his first serious relationship, and for me being my first ever relationship I obviously made mistakes. I went away for a month however we were in contact through email and IM. One night he said that he wanted break up, because his feelings for me weren’t as strong and didn’t feel like we had a future. This was a massive shock as I did not see it coming at all. Especially because he cared so much and did a lot for me in the relationship. I knew his feelings were genuine which made me feel confused as to why he wanted to break up . I know now that I made some mistakes, I was possessive and didn’t give him his freedom, which may be a big reason, however while we were together it didn’t seem like it mattered so much. I was emotional on the phone and tried to explain the night after that I had changed and didn’t want to have silly arguments anymore, and I was finally ready to trust him and he agreed to see me when I would get back to talk about things. Its been 2 weeks since the break up and I haven’t heard from him at all, and I am going back home a couple of days. I have a feeling that he might still care deep down inside, but I dont know what to do. I want to be strong and wait for him to make the next move, but I still need advise as I’m unsure. I really care about him, and want him back, or atleast just to talk to him. I feel if I contact him I’ll seen needy and he might pull away even more.
Wow, this sounds a lot like me and my ex. He’s an aries as well, but I’m a leo. The first couple months of our relationship was pretty great. He was my first real bf and I was his first serious gf. He had a lot more experience than I did in a lot of ways. Anyway, we were really close and depended on each other. I thought he was the one as lame as it sounds to me now. Well when I went off to college we kept in contact through texting and late night phone conversations. Then it started getting more difficult to get a hold of him. Then one day out of the blue he said he thought we needed time apart. He just thought things were too difficult anymore. Well I blamed myself wondering what I had done, thinking of the few times I complained or didn’t agree with him. I blamed myself for him dumping me. Well I was desperate to get him back and he ignored my feelings. Then one day I was doing my laundry in my dorm and I was deep in my thoughts. I thought, maybe this is a sign, maybe I need to dust myself off and move on. At that same moment I needed a dryer that had clothes in it but was finished. The owner wasn’t there so I took the clothes out and put mine in. I couldn’t just leave the clothes in a messy pile so I folded them. After I was done this cute guy came in and looked at the neat piles. He looked over at me and smiled and asked if I’d done that. Well we got to talking and he asked me to ice cream and I agreed figuring I deserved a treat after all this pain I’d been putting myself through. Well, not only did this cute guy turn out to be another aries, but way cuter and appreciated more than I thought a man could. We’re now getting married all this time later. My ex ended up begging me to come back longer than the time we even went out. And I found out he was sleeping with 4 other girls while we were together. I’m glad I found the strength to move on. If it was meant to be it would have been.
Wow, this sounds a lot like me and my ex. He’s an aries as well, but I’m a leo. The first couple months of our relationship was pretty great. He was my first real bf and I was his first serious gf. He had a lot more experience than I did in a lot of ways. Anyway, we were really close and depended on each other. I thought he was the one as lame as it sounds to me now. Well when I went off to college we kept in contact through texting and late night phone conversations. Then it started getting more difficult to get a hold of him. Then one day out of the blue he said he thought we needed time apart. He just thought things were too difficult anymore. Well I blamed myself wondering what I had done, thinking of the few times I complained or didn’t agree with him. I blamed myself for him dumping me. Well I was desperate to get him back and he ignored my feelings. Then one day I was doing my laundry in my dorm and I was deep in my thoughts. I thought, maybe this is a sign, maybe I need to dust myself off and move on. At that same moment I needed a dryer that had clothes in it but was finished. The owner wasn’t there so I took the clothes out and put mine in. I couldn’t just leave the clothes in a messy pile so I folded them. After I was done this cute guy came in and looked at the neat piles. He looked over at me and smiled and asked if I’d done that. Well we got to talking and he asked me to ice cream and I agreed figuring I deserved a treat after all this pain I’d been putting myself through. Well, not only did this cute guy turn out to be another aries, but way cuter and appreciated more than I thought a man could. We’re now getting married all this time later. My ex ended up begging me to come back longer than the time we even went out. And I found out he was sleeping with 4 other girls while we were together. I’m glad I found the strength to move on. If it was meant to be it would have been.
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Hi,
I know it is hard to go through that break up or see him slowly slipping away from you. It is heartbreaking and painful, but there is ways to get him back. He ones fell in love with you and you can make that happen again. The key is to know what to say and do to get him back.
Even if you feel that you are the only one wanting this relationship to work out right now, it is still possible. Couples reunite everyday and so can you and your boyfriend.
So what do you need to do to get back your ex boyfriend?
1. The first thing you need to do to get back your boyfriend is to Agree with the break up. I know it is hard and I know you probably do not agree with it. But for you to be able to move on, to get him back, you need to be on the same side as him. So let him know that you are totally ok with the break up, that you actually have thought about it and that you also think that this is the best thing for both of you right now.
2. Now you need to Give your boyfriend his space. Do not call him or text message him. Do not visit him or contact him in any way. Why? You want to give him the opportunity to miss you. If you keep contacting him, he will not miss you he will know exactly what is going on.
If you leave him alone he will start wondering what you are up to, if you miss him? If you are seeing somebody else? You kind of turn the table, make him wonder. The truth is that we want what we can not have so make yourself "unavailable" for him. If he contacts you be nice but short until you are ready for the next step…
3. So what should you be doing during this time when you are waiting to get back your boyfriend? Be the best you can be, that means stay positive, do things that makes you happy, take care of yourself. We all want to be around happy healthy positive people. You want to feel good about yourself, so when time comes your boyfriend will see the real happy, fun, positive you.
Why did your boyfriend fall in love with you in the first place? Well he did it ones and it can sure happen again. Find out what your next step should be… Go get back your ex boyfriend.
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Hello
Winning back your ex boyfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
if you desire to get your ex back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to remove your negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t get your goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don’t bother your ex boyfriend. Boys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to feel better by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously make phone calls to him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s better to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and eating healthy. When on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
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