Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.

Here are 3 steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together

You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

So don’t ignore someone’s texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.

Don’t Be Jealous

You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

Being Flexible Is Very Important

Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It’s better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.

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I hope you will get your ex girlfriend soon!
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Find out specifically why she feels like that. If you find that out, you both may discover it is something you can work through. She most likely has not had enough time to fall in love with this internet person. Act fast!
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It will require patience and clear thinking in your end just to let her acknowledge that you want to be back in her arms.

Being Apologetic

Her reasons in breaking up with you may just a common mistake (being late on activity or not showing up on certain parties) but you’re still the one who caused them. If you know that the recent breakup is your fault, be apologetic about it. Be sure to be sincere in your apologies without being too desperate. Apologize once or twice but never say “I’m sorry” every time you talk about your relationship.

Think of a Plan

Of course, saying sorry about the recent break-up will not get your relationship back on track.  Aside from being apologetic about the recent break-up, you need to let your ex girlfriend realize that you are willing to change. Don’t just say “I promise I won’t repeat what I did” because it will mean nothing to your girlfriend. Let her know about your concrete plans on preventing the cause of break-up from happening again. It could be professional assistance or just help from friends – you just have to make sure that they are concrete actions.

Desperation is Never an Answer

What you need to remember in the midst of all these is to avoid being desperate. Dress well, think clearly and be firm with your voice while talking to your former girlfriend. If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, you need to show her that you are emotionally strong and you want to fix the relationship. Being desperate is not a way of showing emotional stability.
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What is real key, here, is how YOU behave during this whole thing. Your behavior can make it or break it. For the time being, I would maintain communication with her so she knows you are still interested. But do not overdo it. Don’t suffocate her and push her away.

Oh jeez, there is just so much to share here and not enough space. For now, just maintain contact and don’t suffocate her.
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So you’re saying "I’m still in love with my ex" and you might be wishing that things could be how they were before. But let’s pretend that you could turn back time. Would you get the same results or would things be different?

You need to really look closely at the mistakes that were made, why they happened, and what you learned from them. To get your ex back, you will have to start again at zero to win over their love. If you’re still in love with your ex, you’ll have to bring that love to a level higher than before.

First try to be a friend again. Remember we want to take things s-l-o-w at this stage. If you’re trying to jump right back into things, your ex might recoil at the idea. Don’t push. Don’t be over aggressive. If you’re meant to be together, you will.

Next you want to make sure you’re in a good ‘headspace’. You don’t want to come across to your ex as a miserable, depressed, empty shell of who you were. It’s unattractive, as harsh as that may sound. But just think-would you like to be with someone who was such a downer? Probably not. Most of us are looking for happiness, someone to lift us up and understand us. You will instead be an encouraging friend with your own life, but who still has feelings for your ex.
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http://www.getbackwithmyex.net/breakup-pain-is-overwhelming/

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Who does internet dating anyway? That sounds pretty desperate. Is she ugly or something?

Ok so she told you she loves you… even though she’s talking to some unknown over the net. That’s confusing. Tell her that.

Tell her if she loves you give it another try. Otherwise, there’s PLENTY of fish in the sea… or the net…
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Please re-think what you know
i know this might sound mean but honestly dude,
but hey, you never know untill you try,

please can you answer my question now that i have answered yours.

thanx heaps
xox
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me?!!!?1/! lol