Comments on: How Can I Get Back With My Ex? http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-boyfriend/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/ Mon, 19 Sep 2011 20:20:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Antonio http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-boyfriend/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1858 Antonio Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:29:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/331/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1858 I think that it is way too soon to be even meeting with her. You dumped her a couple weeks ago, not because you wanted to still have her around all the time. I know its harder in execution than in planning. You have to be strong here though. Also some other information: Men and Women generally cant "just be friends" after a relationship that long. Something else will always become of it. Secondly, A clean break and no contact generally does the most healing. Why would you want to keep the weapon in the wound? Pull her out and get to healing, because believe it or not, It takes healing. Lastly, a good rule of thumb is it takes half as long as the relationship lasted to "get over" them. So for you, four months would be adequate time. I hope this helped.<br><b>References : </b><br> I think that it is way too soon to be even meeting with her. You dumped her a couple weeks ago, not because you wanted to still have her around all the time. I know its harder in execution than in planning. You have to be strong here though.

Also some other information:
Men and Women generally cant "just be friends" after a relationship that long. Something else will always become of it.
Secondly, A clean break and no contact generally does the most healing. Why would you want to keep the weapon in the wound? Pull her out and get to healing, because believe it or not, It takes healing.
Lastly, a good rule of thumb is it takes half as long as the relationship lasted to "get over" them. So for you, four months would be adequate time.

I hope this helped.
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]]> By: ms.native pride http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-boyfriend/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1857 ms.native pride Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:27:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/331/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1857 Stay strong and do not have sex with her!!<br><b>References : </b><br> Stay strong and do not have sex with her!!
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]]> By: tamara124343 http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-boyfriend/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1856 tamara124343 Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:25:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/331/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1856 When you meet with your ex, just tell her straight out that you don't want to get back together. If she pleads with you to get back together, tell her no and that decision is not going to change right now. Be firm and don't change your stance on it. It's impossible to love someone when you don't trust them. Love is based on trust, without trust it's just an infatuation.<br><b>References : </b><br> When you meet with your ex, just tell her straight out that you don’t want to get back together.
If she pleads with you to get back together, tell her no and that decision is not going to change right now. Be firm and don’t change your stance on it.
It’s impossible to love someone when you don’t trust them. Love is based on trust, without trust it’s just an infatuation.
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]]> By: Grace http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-boyfriend/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1855 Grace Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:23:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/331/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1855 Stop all communication.<br><b>References : </b><br> Stop all communication.
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]]> By: Philip #3 http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-boyfriend/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1854 Philip #3 Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:21:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/331/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1854 Were you ever married or divorced from her? NO? Then get the heck off Marriage and Divorce!!!<br><b>References : </b><br> Were you ever married or divorced from her? NO? Then get the heck off Marriage and Divorce!!!
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]]> By: Zee-ster http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-boyfriend/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1853 Zee-ster Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:19:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/331/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1853 You need to give yourself time to heal and can only do that away from her. I'm sorry to say but if this relationship were going to work out you would never have broken up to begin with. I've known many people who went back to an ex but never saw a 1 of them succeed. Breaking up is hard to do. Be patient and stay away from her so you can heal. Good luck.<br><b>References : </b><br> You need to give yourself time to heal and can only do that away from her. I’m sorry to say but if this relationship were going to work out you would never have broken up to begin with. I’ve known many people who went back to an ex but never saw a 1 of them succeed. Breaking up is hard to do. Be patient and stay away from her so you can heal. Good luck.
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]]> By: Johanna <3 T http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-boyfriend/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1852 Johanna <3 T Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:17:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/331/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1852 Well, get with some other girls. They might make you forget your ex.<br><b>References : </b><br> Well, get with some other girls. They might make you forget your ex.
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]]> By: GORGI http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-boyfriend/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1851 GORGI Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:15:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/331/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1851 then don't meet with her just yet, give it a few more weeks then have that chat or maybe by then she'll have found someone and won't be interested in conversing about it<br><b>References : </b><br> then don’t meet with her just yet, give it a few more weeks then have that chat or maybe by then she’ll have found someone and won’t be interested in conversing about it
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]]> By: Wisen Smart http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-boyfriend/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1850 Wisen Smart Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:13:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/331/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1850 If you can't swim, stay out of the water, as easy as that. Why expose yourself to a situation you know is going to give you doubts and nothing good will come out of it.<br><b>References : </b><br> If you can’t swim, stay out of the water, as easy as that. Why expose yourself to a situation you know is going to give you doubts and nothing good will come out of it.
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]]> By: Elizabeth http://togetbackex.com/get-back-ex-boyfriend/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1849 Elizabeth Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:11:59 +0000 http://togetbackex.com/331/how-can-i-get-back-with-my-ex/#comment-1849 If she did something to illicit your none trusting feeling, then I'd say why do you have to meet? If you still have to meet, tell her you care for her as a friend, as well as having strong feelings but you would never be able to trust her. Because trust forms the key stone of a relationship. If she did not do anything concrete to cause your distrust, perhaps consider that you can both work through any insecurities you feel. Overall though you can avoid this meeting, say you are tied up and see her one day when you feel ok about it.<br><b>References : </b><br> If she did something to illicit your none trusting feeling, then I’d say why do you have to meet? If you still have to meet, tell her you care for her as a friend, as well as having strong feelings but you would never be able to trust her. Because trust forms the key stone of a relationship.

If she did not do anything concrete to cause your distrust, perhaps consider that you can both work through any insecurities you feel.

Overall though you can avoid this meeting, say you are tied up and see her one day when you feel ok about it.
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